Lets discuss the topic of "Career VS Family". Indeed, this is highly discussed in the radio and people were calling in to give comment in this issue. In fact, the era has changed. Previously, people would be prioritizing family first. Regardless whether you have career or not, a man should build their family. And thats the reason why our parents have so many siblings. Weren't their mum tired of giving birth?? hahah..Well, thats how people live. They married in a very young age and women were treated like sex machine. Their job is to give birth and take care of the family. Neither they have to worry on their financial status and etc. People living in that era, still can live happily, stressless and happy go lucky.
However, coming to this new era, the thought of this has diminished. Instead of family, people are prioritizing CAREER. Regardless how you look at it, both men and women are highly concerned in this issue. Nowadays, there are a high percentage of female to involve in the working industry in all professions. No doubt to say, women have the sense of ego-ness where they do not want to depend on the guys and thats the reason, they work. However, looking at it, why would the women work if the guy could give them a sense of security and protection?
Women today are pretty much realistic and I believe it happens to the guys. If the guy do not has a career, how could he assure the gals' happiness? How would the gal said a YES answer to guy to build the family when the guy could not even afford to bear the living? Its pretty realistic now. Same goes to the guy. If the women are not independent, the guy would feel burden and pressured (Unless you are from a very rich family background)
So, coming to this, dont you think that career is important??Without career, without the sense of security and protection. Without that, how to build a family?? Am I right? Hence, the olden days thought could no longer be applied in our generations as the daily expenses has increases tremendously. We could not even buy much thing with RM 50. Houses are damn expensive, if you notice. For a single meal of a day, you need at least RM 10. So, isn't the career important??
Im not trying to say that GALS are materialistic but this is the fact. It is the SENSE OF SECURITY. Gals are attached to the men for the reason of security. Hence, MEN!!- Please provide the security to the female and for WOMEN, be independent. Do not always rely on men..Remember that, with career,everything comes along!!
For rich kids, you are lucky because you are from the rich family. So, utilize that "richness" and develop something that benefits you in the future. Stop being ego for the wealth you have and use them all. Its a sad thing though. Be mature and start planning!
Ps: Its just my thoughts to share. You may agree or disagree with me. Regardless what it is, thanks for reading! Cheers!
Carezz,
Shirley
6 comments:
methinks family is more importan than career
yes, we need a job 2 pay d bills n put food on the table
but it's love n affection frm them tht gets us going to work! XD
cheers, mumsy! XD
well said ! not that we are materialistic, just need that sense of security !
yeah, is quite true but thats not the central of the family or relationship. they no need to discuss this topic if true love occur. true love only occur when a man or woman is "mature" enough to take care themselves then thats why they extended it to take care another person.
aside, career can never versus family and why must put career and family as enemy? must us forgo one only can get another? can't we manage both well?
Calvyn: true enough. No doubt to say, family is important but isn't the career is the one to build a happy family? You wouldnt want to end up in a family that face financial difficulties and argues a lot rite??
Shi Yun: Of course, at the same time, we got to look pn situation de la ya..^^ Somehow, security is the one that gal needs the most.^^
Anonymous: Thanks for the comment. Its good argument on this. Anyhow, looking at it, its not that this both element cant exist. Its just that people do not know how to balance both and most of the time, people are bind with the word "sacrifice". You only have 24 hours and how can you want everything in the life? You need to prioritize one compared to another.
And of course, I do agree with the part that only mature couple could take care one another. However, mutual understanding is needed before they could reach to this stage and u and I know that, its not easy to do dis rite...?
somehow, i do welcome ur comment and truly appreciate it.^^
Yup, is not easy but with the true love nothing is impossible!
true enough...tat also the two people are committed and engaged to this true love..it is three, it exist and its just depends whether can they work it out or not lo..hehehe..anyway, love is eternal and pure^^
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