Gal's Diary

Hang on Shirley =)

2011-12-14T23:58:00.003+08:00

One more ....

One more to go and I shall declare MERDEKA !!! =)

Will not stay in INTI after this..

Working with ONE FINAL YEAR PROJECT next sem...

and I am working in January 2012...

God...am getting motivated to start the new chapter of my life....

(Will write more after my finals.)

Nitezz!

=3 more weeks to FINALS=

2011-11-25T10:56:00.002+08:00

3 more weeks to FINALS!!!!

And left with 2 research papers, 1 group project, 4 presentations....Hahaha...This semester has been a hectic with tons of assignments, projects and also HOLIDAYS!! Being a final year student, life is challenging and yet, I still grab the chance to enjoy the pace of my life.

Enjoying the breeze of the morning air, chit chat session with my beloved roommate, living in the swimming pool, dealing with various matters and that's makes my life....Will I miss my University's life?? Well, thats for sure I guess. I will miss it especially my term in LEO Club...The faces of them are fresh in my mind where we worked till late night and yet, with one team, we succeeded as ONE. I miss working with them...With my groupmates - tons of laughter and also tons of unhappiness - but thanks for carving this memories to me...

Till then, wish me all the best in this and of course, my finals! =)

Cheers and have a great day ahead!

I am HAPPY. I am SATISFIED!

2011-11-15T00:59:00.004+08:00

I know that it's kind of early to put up Christmas Decoration but since time does not allow, so ya - got to put it now. After busying for 4 nights, finally the decoration in my hostel was up at its place. Was pretty satisfied and happy with the outcomes =)

Though it was the first time I organized this occasion, yet truly appreciate with the help that is given especially from the IHRBs, ICF and the floor reps. Finally, it's DONEEEE!!! And right now, I can take a good rest and it's time for assignments....

Approximately left 3 weeks will be my finals and hence, things got to speed up especially submitting the assignments and projects while start studying for finals oo..(wish I have more time now)..Haha.

All the best my friends!!! LETS do it!!!!

Ps: There's more pics to come. There are 2 Christmas trees at the end of the street with one wishing Christmas tree at the front =)

21st Birthday =)

2011-08-24T20:01:00.003+08:00

Indeed, my 21st birthday ended up on the first day of the semester. Nothing much as we were all busy with enrollment, choosing which major to take and etc. At the same time, the best gift that I ever received on that day was choosing which major - PR or Advertising. I was dilemma and real dilemma, didn't know what to choose and finally, after the third day, I choose Advertising. I believe that I make the right decision, looking forward to this enthusiastic classes.

In fact, I went to PR class on that day and by 6pm, I officially headed room. RC was in a good mood to tag me for dinner and I nodded "YES". Claiming that we would have dinner in Salak but ended up, we went to Midvalley - Chillis. Thank you so much for the birthday cake by Chillis though =)

I didn't have a big 21st birthday celebration because I had actually have them on the 29th of May 2011. Yes! You got me right!! I celebrated in MAY 2011 because my brother was leaving to United Kingdom by the early June. So, that was my fanta-bulous celebration and I loved it=) 21st birthday was really different compared to my past 20 years. Though the moment was pretty short, yet, this showed the love, concern and caring of my loved ones in sacrificing their time for me.

Of course, all this – I had to thank a person – a special one in my life. He made my day! He cooperated with my family members without letting me know. He lied to me, initiating me to have a farewell party for my brother. He gave me a huge surprise especially when he turned himself to a Western chef, who never failed to impress me. He did it! The lovely roast lamb leg was indeed superb and all was purely done by BOTH OF HIS HANDS! The red wine was tasteful and the chatting session with my family members around was indeed an unforgettable memory. The cake tasted delicious and what else to say, when all your loved ones were celebrating Birthday together with you.

Thank you so much for this long plan! Thank you for the prezzie and thank you so much J.Of course, highest gratitude to my family too in fooling me around, tagging me out while he was at the home, and celebrating my EARLY Birthday!..Thanks and love you guys lots!! Words can’t represent all the indescribable feelings but God knows on how gratitude I was to have you all in my life J hugs.

So, altogether - I had one major celebration in May and minor celebration on that day itself =) I enjoyed the moment with them and of course, thank you to all my friends who wished me through phone messages, Facebook wall posts and Facebook messages. Indeed, you guys showed me the value of the friendship and I appreciate to know you guys and have you all around. Truly appreciate with the birthday wishes because it really meant a lot =) Thanks!!! My 21st birthday turned out to be superb due to you guys. Cheers!

August 2011

2011-08-08T07:50:00.001+08:00

Month of August!!

Needed some time to breathe =)

Remember, all is well.......

Look at this!

2011-07-08T06:53:00.002+08:00

Something we need to ponder. Though Japanese had encountered a bad day in 2011, yet, their spirit towards their country never failed. Even, a Vietnamese immigrant witnessed this incident. I wonder if disaster happens in Malaysia, could we adapt the positive attitudes and spirit of Japanese like the 9 years old boy or would we start killing one another and lose our dignity in order to survive? Guess that we have the answer in our mind.

Let this story to create an impact for us in order to improve.

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THIS letter, written by Vietnamese immigrant Ha Minh Thanh working in
Fukushima as a policeman to a friend in Vietnam, was
posted on New America Media on March 19. It is a testimonial to the
strength of the Japanese spirit, and an interesting slice of
life near the epicenter of Japan 's crisis at the Fukushima nuclear
power plant. It was translated by NAM editor Andrew Lam,
author of "East Eats West: Writing in Two Hemispheres." Shanghai
Daily condensed it.

Brother,

How are you and your family? These last few days, everything was in
chaos. When I close my eyes, I see dead bodies. When I open my eyes, I
also see dead bodies.

Each one of us must work 20 hours a day, yet I wish there were 48
hours in the day, so that we could continue helping and rescuing
folks.

We are without water and electricity, and food rations are near zero.
We barely manage to move refugees before there are new
orders to move them elsewhere.

I am currently in Fukushima , about 25 kilometers away from the nuclear
power plant. I have so much to tell you that if I could
write it all down, it would surely turn into a novel about human
relationships and behaviors during times of crisis.

People here remain calm - their sense of dignity and proper behavior
are very good - so things aren't as bad as they could
be. But given another week, I can't guarantee that things won't get
to a point where we can no longer provide proper protection
and order.

They are humans after all, and when hunger and thirst override
dignity, well, they will do whatever they have to do. The
government is trying to provide supplies by air, bringing in food and
medicine, but it's like dropping a little salt into the
ocean.

Brother, there was a really moving incident. It involves a little
Japanese boy who taught an adult like me a lesson on how to
behave like a human being.

Last night, I was sent to a little grammar school to help a charity
organization distribute food to the refugees. It was a long line that
snaked this way and that and I saw a little boy around 9 years old. He
was wearing a T-shirt and a pair of shorts.

It was getting very cold and the boy was at the very end of the line.
I was worried that by the time his turn came there wouldn't
be any food left. So I spoke to him. He said he was at school when the
earthquake happened. His father worked nearby and was
driving to the school. The boy was on the third floor balcony when he
saw the tsunami sweep his father's car away.

I asked him about his mother. He said his house is right by the beach
and that his mother and little sister probably didn't make
it. He turned his head and wiped his tears when I asked about his
relatives.

The boy was shivering so I took off my police jacket and put it on him.
That's when my bag of food ration fell out. I picked it
up and gave it to him. "When it comes to your turn, they might run
out of food. So here's my portion. I already ate. Why don't
you eat it?"

The boy took my food and bowed. I thought he would eat it right away,
but he didn't. He took the bag of food, went up to where
the line ended and put it where all the food was waiting to be
distributed.

I was shocked. I asked him why he didn't eat it and instead added it to
the food pile. He answered: "Because I see a lot more
people hungrier than I am. If I put it there, then they will
distribute the food equally."

When I heard that I turned away so that people wouldn't see me cry.

A society that can produce a 9-year-old who understands the concept of
sacrifice for the greater good must be a great
society, a great people.

Well, a few lines to send you and your family my warm wishes. The hours
of my shift have begun again.

Ha Minh Thanh

************ LESSON TO LEARN FROM JAPAN ***********

10 things to learn from Japan.

1. THE CALM
Not a single visual of chest-beating or wild grief. Sorrow itself has been elevated.

2. THE DIGNITY
Disciplined queues for water and groceries. Not a rough word or a crude gesture.

3. THE ABILITY
The incredible architects, for instance. Buildings swayed but didn’t fall.

4. THE GRACE
People bought only what they needed for the present, so everybody could get something.

5. THE ORDER
No looting in shops. No honking and no overtaking on the roads. Just understanding.

6. THE SACRIFICE
Fifty workers stayed back to pump sea water in the N-reactors. How will they ever be repaid?

7. THE TENDERNESS
Restaurants cut prices. An unguarded ATM is left alone. The strong cared for the weak.

8. THE TRAINING
The old and the children, everyone knew exactly what to do. And they did just that.

9. THE MEDIA
They showed magnificent restraint in the bulletins. No silly reporters. Only calm reportage.

10. THE CONSCIENCE
When the power went off in a store, people put things back on the shelves and left quietly!

P.E.A.C.E

2011-06-13T21:33:00.002+08:00

So peaceful and so harmonize,

Listening to Kenny G songs while looking at the pictures,

Melt my heart

Through the serene night..

It is never measure on what you have sacrifice,

but its measure on how willing you sacrifice..

It is never measure on how good you control yourself,

but it is measure on how willing you are to tolerate...

So peace...and peace...

That's the only thing to distract myself..

Smiling at it...

Listening to it..

and have faith in Him.

May - June Updates!!

2011-06-13T11:07:00.003+08:00

I was pretty busy for the past few weeks and this semester is giving the hectic time to students. With ONLY 7 study weeks in this semester, the lecturers and students need to finish up the syllabus and all the courseworks...FUH!!! What a nice super short semester we had from our University in changing our study plan...

Anyhow, many superb things has been accompanying me in my life and there is still more to go.! :)

~I have celebrated my 21st birthday with my loved ones.

~Bro went to UK for his further studies.

~ Had done my 2 days part time job as an Ice Cream promoter

~Children Camp 7 just ended and I lost my voice :(

~Father's Day is approaching.

~Assignments and projects are piling up

and

~and when could I DECLARE my holiday??? I want a BREAAKKK!!

Vacation in Sabah

2011-05-20T10:13:00.012+08:00

“Hey, we have 5 more months for our trip.”

“Eh, what to bring ar?”

“Didn’t know that we are leaving tomorrow."

" What’s our plan?”

Another minute we blinked our eyes, we were in airport, bidding farewell to my friend’s parents and staring at my watch, waiting for flight AKA 5117. Tick tock tick tock – indicating it’s 815pm. Indeed, time flies like nobody’s business. My 3 days and 3 nights vacation in Sabah has finally come to an end. Looking back, I did had a wonderful moments in Sabah.

"Ham Xi Piang"

Great food, fabulous places, nice people and one word –AWESOME!!! If I were given a chance, I would want to lengthen my stay there as I am not ready to go leave this fabulous place. 3 days and 3nights is a bit short though. Well, shall make another trip to Sabah againJ.

Crocodile Skin - Morning Market

Talking about my vacation, I would have to thank my “Bestie” for the ultimate plan in bringing me around and also to taste the local delicacies in Sabah. Though I have not eaten all of them, at least, I managed to try a few. With great explanation from him, I understand slightly on the culture, the lifestyle of Sabah and etc. This has makes my heart to grow another liking and interest in exploring Sabah.

Welcome to Mozampiad Cultural Village

Few things that I realized and that marks the differences between the West Malaysia and East Malaysia. Firstly, the food in Sabah. Most of the restaurants’ and cafes’ are owned by the locals. It means that there is not many regional and international restaurants’ in Sabah even the fast food restaurants. In fact, Sabahans do not prefer McDonald but they prefer KFC and Pizza. Unlike us in Peninsular, McDonald is mostly the chosen one as the favorite place. Not only that, businesses in Sabah are all owned by the locals which shows that they do not have much interference from the external parties. With that, cafes like Yoyo Café, Restaurant Eddie, Frenz Café, and others are only available in Sabah and throughout my trip, I did not see any restaurants or café like Secret Recipe, Old Town and others. However, the best food of all is still the brand image that is build by each area. For example, Tuaran Mee is famous in Tuaran.

Famous Desa Milk and Tuaran Mee

Though Sabah is mainly populated by the natives especially the Kadazans, still the area that I hang out were mainly the Sino Kadazans who speak great Hakka dialect. I felt so ostracized because I barely understand Hakka dialect. Haha! J Thank God, I was able to communicate by Mandarin language which is a credit for me. At least, retaining my mother tongue helps. J

One of my favorites - Fish

Somehow, it was a bit strange when I first stepped into a place which do not belonged to me, especially in the dark hour. I was given a permit and I was only allowed to stay for 90 days. Somehow, it was like the Visitor’s Pass in order for me to move around in Sabah. When I received that, I recalled my trip, back in China. Many questions started to run across my mind. Sabah is included in the formation of Malaysia but why we, Malaysians are being treated so strangely when we stepped into our neighboring states? Hmm…

Kota Kinabalu

Stepping into Sabah, one thing that you must do is to know their cultures especially the natives’ and this does not stop me. Bestie was really in good mood that day to drive me all the way to Mosampiad Cultural Village. Entrance fees was RM 30 with the student identification card. And, one thing for sure, I did not regret visiting the village as I learnt a lot of the Kadazan’s culture such as the House of Skulls, Kadazan’s dance and games, the beliefs in spirits and lots more.

House of Skulls

Sabah is always known on Mount Kinabalu and of course, I did pay a visit there. Yeah, a visit but not climbing the highest mountain though, looking at the lack of exercise – it would be something hard and tough.

Wow Wow wow!!!

Went to the Kinabalu Park and ended up, bestie and I were trekking the jungle, realizing that it’s time for us to burn our calories. Though we were not in the proper attire, but who cares..We did have some fun in walking the trail, surrounded by the long, thin trees, accompanied by the dark sky and birds chirping as the welcoming speech to us was somehow a bit scary. It seemed like we were living in our own world as we could barely see any human figures during our jungle trekking. No tour guide with us too! After hours, we did managed to find our way out before the heavy clouds released their stress.

Japanese Cemetery

The very last places we visit before we headed to dinner and airport, was the Japanese Cemetery that is situated in Likas. We were running like mad cows to the respective places due to the time constraints. Slowly, we climbed the steps and we managed to have a look. FUUHH!!!! It’s a very simple cemetery and it had been ages. Since I am a Chinese illiterate, my bestie translated some words for me – stating that most of the burial ground were all unknown and this Japanese cemetery has existed before Malaysia gained its independence.

During the 3days and 3 nights, I was MAINLY exposed to the local delicacies rather than exploring the places. After all, food is always the main attraction in a certain places and due to that, I have actually gained some weights. I guess it would be the best time for me to keep my diet and have some exercise to burn my calories.

Till then, thanks for reading ^^

Signing off,

Shirley

I smell FREEDOM!!

2011-05-09T18:25:00.001+08:00

I am done with my finals! Yes, you heard me right! I am done..Officially done with my last paper today – Principles of Public Relations. With the 2 weeks of semester break, I shall plan for vacation..and I would be going for a three days vacation..I believe this vacation would serves one of the best memories that I ever have and I am waiting!! Hahaha..

For finals, I have done my part and the rest are left to the Mighty which I believe He would have something best for me J I just can’t help it but to announce to people around me that “I sudah Merdeka!” The feeling is damn superb and I just can’t wait..

Oh oh..what am I going to do next?? Plan for my vacation? The trip? Haha…and I wouldn’t tell much on what I am head on to..Wait till I am back and stay tune with my post! What’s for sure now is I have 2 weeks break from touching the book and releasing myself, enjoying the things that I wanted to do now..hahaha!!

Enjoy your holidays, my friends and see you in new semester! ^^

Time Flies Fast ~~

2011-04-22T22:30:00.003+08:00

Time flies and this semester has been a busy semester for me. Though I am not bind with any clubs, still, the assignments and projects are enough to take my time off. Anyhow, everything has ended smoothly and right now, I am left with the final papers. Altogether, 5 papers and after that, I would be moving on to the next semester. This means that I am one step closer to my graduation which indicates I am GONNA to WORK soon!!! Don't you think time flies??

The conversation between Ween, Irene and I - We managed to survive in our University for 3 years and time flies. We remembered that, the first day when we stepped into the college, we were wondering on the survival path such as what to eat and etc for the freaking 3 to 4 years? But, right now, we are going to graduate soon!!..A year probably and we will be an official working adult.

FUuuhh~~ Well, God bless all of us and let's have a wonderful memories in life..

Ps: Sometimes, its good not to know so much because sometimes, the truth could cause the hatred in you. Well, don't try to be smart in a way cause this wouldn't shines you out but hinders you away.

Be happy and smile always!

1st Advice for the Day :)

2011-04-04T20:36:00.001+08:00

Whether you like it or not, you still have to do it.

So, Just do it!!

Advice for the day :)

~Don't let your sunshine down~

2011-03-23T09:56:00.003+08:00

Live to the fullest with all your hopes, dreams and wishes.

Eventhough you fall at times, still, cherish the smile in you.

Though you might have done something stupid in the public, don't feel depressed but enjoy those moments. Don't let this to turn your sunshine down.

Be it on what matter, always be yourself and never fails it.

Dares to dream and dares to achieve.

Always happy and treasure the joy though you are in a "suffering" moment.

Once you have adapt to this, you are one step, mastering your emotions.

Have fun! Always smile and have faith in yourself. Cheers ^^

Tell me, Guide me and Lead ME!!

2011-03-22T00:09:00.001+08:00

Life changes tremendously. Living in this world, we are always packed with the ups and downs. Always facing stress and pressure from all various factors. And still, we have to move on..and continue to move forward!..Or else, we would knock off from the race itself. Regardless how hard and tough the life is, still, our step got to keep moving.

Though assignments, projects, mid term and quizzes are all given at one shot, still, we can't sit down and ask God, on why do we face all this. Instead of questioning and complaint, might as well, we get the work start and done. Typically Malaysian gal like me too faces this. I got freaking more than 10 assignments and seriously, sometimes, I asked for some space to grasp my air..Its hard..yet, its challenging!

AND, with my open and welcoming heart, I am ready to face all the piling assignments!! hahah..God bless me^^..

One is down and one more to go!!

2011-03-11T13:18:00.002+08:00

ONE is down! Am done with emcee-ing for Orientation Night. Truly a great experience and didn't know that I would have the opportunity to host the Orientation Night. It was fabulous and nice working with the whole bunch of Social Board people. Great Job, Social Board! You guys rocks!! Really thanks to Leanne and Warrent especially for being with us all the time throughout the night..Though I had not hosted such a big event for years, still, appreciate lots that I was given the chance to so so. It really opened up my eyes on how you guys work around...Somehow, one thing still stuck in my mind about Social Board people..hahah..Guess, only Sandra and Jason knew about it! ^^ Once again, congratz Social Board and thanks a lot..Nice working with Rich too!

Next up, Charity Night. Event by Leo Club..Please do support the charity especially to those who are in need..You can make a difference in their lives. It's on Wednesday - 16th March and see you there ya...Rocks CHARITY!!!

Regards,

SHirley!

The Month of March

2011-03-08T16:41:00.003+08:00

It's has been ages since the last time I updated my blog.

Pretty much is due to piling up assignments, busy daily activities and *no idea*.

March would be a busy month yet an exciting month where I would face challenges from various ways..Mentally, physically and psychologically..Can I do it???

I got to let my mind to stay focus and calm..Or else, I would be diverted easily..

This is the most critical month in the semester and mid term is coming up!

Emcee for the Orientation Night and Charity Night are huge enough to train me off to become one..Hope that I would not disappoint you guys...

*Mentally support*.....

Gambate Shirley!

=HappY Valentine Day=

2011-02-14T11:30:00.002+08:00

Its the 14th February 2011 and this indicates that love is absolutely in the air now!

Happy Valentine Day to all regardless you are single or attached. After all, the true meaning of Valentine is to spread your love out and spend the much valuable time with your loved ones! Its not about the gift, but its about the precious moments that you guys have it. So, appreciate it! Time is gold..^^

For couples:-

- Dine each other in a restaurant or perhaps, have a couple cooking session together.

- Share all your dreams, hopes and love to your loved ones

- Hold each other hands and do not let it go

- Dress in your best outfit and celebrate this motion with a happy mood.

- Listen to the classic song together while cuddling on the bed.

- *Thats more to go ya*

For singles:-

- Hang out and celebrate Single Awareness Day!!

- Party, party and party

Hahaha..Well, just some crazy thoughts on it. You can choose to neglect it though..^^..Always bring your happiness, creativity and romance and that will eventually shines you out! The reason is simple because you are who you are! Enjoy celebrating this day in the unique way you think you can and take them as the memories with you!

Happie Valentine Day!

Chinese New Year 2011 - TOGETHER ness

2011-02-09T14:01:00.003+08:00

Ps: The first day of Chinese New Year!

Do you enjoy the Chinese New Year this time? The year of rabbit with the theme of TOGETHER has come about especially in bonding with friends and family. In some point, it is good as it places most individuals at the heart of the heaven and not neglecting their loved ones. Therefore, this time around, my family had initiated to tour around in the Langkawi Island since the holiday was pretty short.

Surprisingly, the small little island that is situated in Kedah was loaded and occupied with tons of people regardless locals or foreigners. Even the local commented that, this was the most tourists in Langkawi for years and never before, they experienced it. I presumed most hotels and motels were fully booked and there weren’t cars to be rented out off. Lady luck was with us that we managed to grab the last two rooms in the Aseania resort, Pulau Cenang and the last 2 cars from 2 different dealers. However, sacrifice is always needed and that’s where the first day of our holiday gone. Ample time had taken for all this hassles due to the sudden, last minute trip to Langkawi Island. It was fun in a way that everything you do was so much instant and it’s a very challenging, adventurous trip.

Ps: The leisure walk in Cenang Beach!

On the second day, the 9 of us were enthusiastic to hop on the Langkawi Cable car. After the short leisure walk at the Pulau Cenang beach, we drove all the way to that respective destination and it came to the point where we received disappointment. The station was jam-packed with tons of people and in order for us to hop in, we had to wait for nearly an hour to two. The waiting time might prolong to late evening. Not only that, weather was scorching and it burnt us deeply that my brother suggested us to go for a fish spa session in Oriental Village. Most of them went for it except for my younger siblings and I. After loitering around that area for quite some time, we headed to the jetty point to buy our ferry ticket for the next day. Gracious! Some of the ferry company provided me with a bad news stating that its “SOLD OFF!” Can you imagine how crazy the Chinese New Year season in Langkawi? Quickly slipped off and went to another company. Thank God, we managed to grab the final 9 ferry tickets back to Kuala Perlis. Truly appreciate with the lady luck that accompanied us. As for those who queued after me, they had no choice but to go back on Monday. Some did sacrifice and gone back on the Saturday itself.

Ps: The only place that we went for the 3days and 2 nights trip - Eagle Square. For all picture I took, I loved this the most because of the eagle. Someone told me that he loved eagle so much due to the hidden meaning behind it and thats the reason I took this! *Hope you read this*

No doubt to say, due to the unexpected number of tourists in Langkawi island, we did not managed to play around and tour around to places like waterfall, cable car, Mahsuri tomb and others. But what we have done for our 3 days 2 nights trip was to shop and shop till we drop! I actually shopped and hunt for chocolates and liquors from one shop to another and from one town to another town. It was so tempting to see so much of chocolates that were available there. Yet, with the limited human resources, we couldn’t buy much too.

Somehow, the memory in Langkawi Island was worthwhile especially with the companion of family and my brother’s friends. It really serves the purpose of Chinese New Year that is reunion and bonding with your loved ones. It’s not about the red packets that you received, the cookies that you get to eat, a long holiday for you, but spending the endless time with family is truly awesome. It rocks and at the same time, it hurts especially when you have to sit in the car for more than 12 hours, on the way back to home! :)

Signing off,

Shirley!

-Happiness- LIFE!

2011-02-01T16:31:00.002+08:00

I have been neglecting my blog for quite some time. Not because I am lazy to blog, its just because the mood to blog is not there. The month of January wasn't a smooth month for me and now, I deeply pray that the upcoming 11 months would be the fabulous months for me to end my 2011. Sometimes, things are unpredictable and sometimes, we might question why are we facing all this ups and downs? Well, I always believe that everything happens for a reason. God purposely created the hard path for us to go through and I believe He would lead us to somewhere. Its the faith that you have to put in. The road might seems tough to walk, sometimes, it bares us out..and at times, it tears our heart..Yet, with the determination, love, passion and the faith in us, we would definitely be able to go through this.

Words are said so easily but when you are asked to do it, you always face the DEVIL that disrupts your way. To do it, its not easy. Coming to look deeply, we are just a normal human being. At times, we are easily defeated by our inner selves. Yet, only strong and tough people are able to survive. Due to this, I try my best not to let the sunshine in me to diminish. Yet again, being the normal gal, sometimes, I always being defeated especially when tremendous challenges are overtaking us.

I listened to a professor, in fact. In his seminar, he stated the inner, true happiness of a person is much important than any other things else. A person should gain happiness on who he/she is and not because what he/she has it. In today's society, we are being manipulated of the word "happiness". For example, when you get a LV bag, you would happy. When you get a BMW, you would happy too. Your days will blossom when you get to hook up with a partner whom you love. However, is this the real definition of being happy??

*what do you think?*

Love,

Shirley Teo

Shirley is back to the KITCHEN - Presented MIHUN LALA!

2011-01-17T17:14:00.004+08:00

Cooking is a form of art. Do you agree with this? Back then, I was the one who consumed food and became the food eater. However, in a recent time, things changed! Mum gave her faith to me by asking me to cook dinner for my family.

Mum: Lai, tonight you would cook dinner. Cook Mi Hun Lala la..First, prepare the .......

*explaining on how to cook the mi hun*

Shirley: Okie! How come you asked me to cook de le??

Mum: Big gal d ma..Must learn de ma.

Shirley: Oh okie lo..if you trust me.

Mum: Okie! But don't cook using your feelings ya.

Shirley: *???*

I admit that I love to cook via feelings. I don't pay attention on the amount of like how many spoons of this and that. Rather, I choose to put them depends on my liking and my feel! *That makes sense*

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Cooking for an individual would be darn easy but not to cook to feed 6 tummy in the family. First of all, it is important to get all the ingredients prepared before light up the stove. And first thing first, I thought of garlic. Get a few garlic and smash them!

Since the name of the dish is called "MiHun Lala", hence, the main role of the day is actually the mi hun!.Get it softened by soaking it in a bowl of water. I remembered asking my mum on why are we suppose to soften the mihun? Can't we try by not soaking them first?? And guess what!!! Mum gave her blank stare*

Once the mihun is pretty soft, next thing up would be getting all the spices together so that you would not miss anything out while you are half way cooking. So, ya - below are the ingredients for MIHUN LALA!

Can you see them??...Another picture of it!

Should be clearer right, I guess??..Anyway, the sauces that I used were pretty simple. They are no other than the oyster sauce and dark soy sauce.

And the highlight of the dish is the LALA! Thinking about it, baby lala is used rather than the big one. This seems to be the norm for most of the restaurant, I guess. Juicy, succulent and abundant!

Once all the ingredients are prepared, then, "woman best friend" has to be there too, especially when we approach the kitchen. *Ta - da*

Once the stove is pretty heated, then put in the mashed garlic. Cook till its brown and fragrant smell appeared.

Then, put in the mihun and start to make your own business with it by mixing them fairly.

After that, spices and sauces can put to the Mihun! Use the special gift by God that is tongue and heart to measure how much you need to put them to provide the satisfying feelings. You would never go wrong with this, then.

Once the MiHun is well mixed, then, you can just put the bean sprouts and the lala. Mix them evenly and it is ready for you to try them out! Isn't it easy??

Try them out! You can add other ingredients that you like! Well, this is the first time for Shirley to cook a proper, light dinner to her family. You can try this out ya! Shirley is back to the kitchen 00! ^^

Have a great day ahead and smile always!

Love, Shirley

1st week of class.

2011-01-14T17:38:00.003+08:00

1st week of class has commenced.

With the 4 main subjects and 1 elective subject,

Timetable looks pretty good but things are never the same again.

Coming to the another level of studies, it truly challenges an individual.

and I am looking forward for it!

There's more to come and we shall see, whats "on" in the future.

Welcome back to Shirley's student life!! ^^

why, why and why??

2011-01-11T23:24:00.001+08:00

Tell me why??..

*pondering*

Back to INTI!!

2011-01-09T18:17:00.004+08:00

I am back!

Officially, stepped in INTI International University!

Entered the dusty room that have left for months...

and tomorrow, would be the start of my semester after Internship!.

What would it be? Will the awkward feeling appears after months of not being lectured??

Hmmmm......Things are not the same anymore. They changed and I changed!

Faces around me seems unknown...Voices are all never been heard before..

The old laughter and jokes could no longer be heard..

Truly, a new world now! A new world to explore and ponder..*think*

Welcome to 2011!

2011-01-04T11:23:00.002+08:00

2011, a new chapter of life with new hope and new start!

2010 is ended with mixed feelings - tear, hope, laughter, joy, happiness, and surprise.

Looking back the past and I felt very satisfied, with no regrets.

The tasks that I wished to achieve, have I done.

The road that I dared not take, have I taken.

The moments that I longed for, have I memorized.

The hardship and challenges that obstruct my ways, have I gone through.

And I felt very relaxed now! Satisfied, No regrets and 2010 is a good, good year for me!

Let me take this opportunity to thank everyone here for the support and guidance throughout my 2010 - my family for sure, the LEOs, my college mates, MGS friends, GO Communications staff, my friends from different walks of life and lastly, the bf for making my life colorful.

I'll carve my 2011 journey to something new, better than my 2010.

For all reasons, because I have grown up! ^^

and only 1 thing that still left pending :(

-Plan to keep fit is always failed.

Got to work it out!! ^^

aza aza fighting everyone and Happy New Year 2011.!

Cherish the moments and enjoy the process because everything happens for a reason!

Cheers!

Mian Tui Mian !

2011-01-02T12:32:00.003+08:00

When we invaded Subang Jaya, we always wondered what would be the best food that is available in that area. Browsing through some webs whereby people are actually introducing the Pan Mee, the three of us decided to give a try! Since it was during the weekdays, we had a tough time to hunt for a nice parking spot, and that led us to park at the Subang market there.

Upon our arrival, I got myself the best seller Pan Mee that is the dried spicy Pan Mee. Customers are allowed to choose their own type of mee which came in 4 options - Thick, Thin, Crust and *I have forgotten the other name*. I thought of getting a combination mee but the waiter did not allow us to do so. *argg!* Hence, I got myself with the thick mee!

The thick mee that goes along with crispy anchovies, half boiled eggs and the minch meat. The appearance and the presentation of the mee really tempted a person and this, I couldn't deny it.

The mee looks delicious after I have added the chilli paste. Being a chilli lover, I was so enthusiastic with it and Put a few scoops to my bowl. By then, I was ready to taste the so called best mee in Subang area.

However, I was a bit disappointed after I have tasted them. I thought it would be something different compared to the Pan Mee from the other places. Perhaps, high expectations lead to high disappointment. Somehow, it defeated my temptation and the dried chilli wasn't that fragrant at all. It was pretty tasteless and I missed the "xia chiang mian", back in Nilai :( However, this Pan Mee suits well for those people who love *originality* and pretty smooth in taste. I guess, thats the reason that why most family and elderly chose this place for them to dine in. *which was what I seen during my visit there*

*Noted : Dark sauce is not added!

Complimentary soup with the Pan Mee! Hmm..wasn't really impressed with that too.

The dried chilli that goes along with the Pan Mee. To me, it wasn't spicy at all! Perhaps, I am just a chilli freak till I can't taste them like what others have them??

Look at Linda. She got herself another different bowl of Pan Mee! She loved the fishballs, actually. ^^

Another version of soup Pan Mee with the thin mee. Asked for the feedbacks from the gals, they didn't find something different too in this mee!

This is the Shop that we entered! *Mian tui Mian*. It is situated next to the Inti College Subang Jaya and highways are actually opposite this shop. Price was pretty reasonable and it costed me about RM 5.++.

With that, I shall end my post here. Going to get myself a bowl of "Xia Chiang Mian" soon!! ^-^

Uncle Choon's Dinner??

2010-12-23T21:27:00.002+08:00

Hot mee suits well for dinner especially during the rainy season! Wanted to try something new?? Something fabulous beside Bak Kut Teh in Klang?? and here, let me present to you the BEST CHI HUN KENG(As a food lover's opinion! Try this out1) !! I doubt whether you heard of this mee but trust me, you will definitely enjoy them.

The transparent, jelly mee with the slimy sauce made the mee outstanding. With the hot spices that cooked together with taugeh, it turned the CHI HUN KENG to be delicioux! Brief intro - For Hokkien, we called this as Chi Hun Keng..Some chefs presented them with sauce and some cooked without the sauce.

Fried Rice which always filled a person's tummy. Fragnant smell with proper ingredients could turn the normal white rice to something special! Simple is always the best.

My younger bro's favorite! Ying Yong!! With the mixture of fried dried mi hun and fried kuew teow, the ying yong is formed! With the tapioca starch, fresh meats and some vegetables that outstand the dish, it is definitely a must try dish when you are here!

Lastly, let me present to you, the signature dish for all Hokkiens! THE HOKKIEN MEE!! The yellow mee which coated with dark sauce and slimy would always be the Hokkiens favourite! Dad loves this dish muchie!

For all the dishes that were presented, I still love my CHI HUN KENG!1 My all time favourites! Though the dish wasn't that bad, but, the portion of it was pretty small.. For those who have a big appetite, I believe that you need to consume more of it! That is why they offered in three sizes whether you want it SMall, Medium or BIG!! Try this out in Klang - Teluk Pulai!

Bak Kut Teh for DINNER???

2010-12-18T20:40:00.004+08:00

Usually, I will go for Bak Kut Teh session for my breakfast. Somehow, the angels for today led my family to try them out for dinner after we went round and round, realizing that most restaurants were pretty occupied! Finally, we landed to this Bak Kut Teh shop which always be the number 1 choice for my family.

Surprisingly, there were so many people in the shop too. However, services were pretty good as we did not need to wait for a long time. Within seconds, 2 big bowls of "porkie" which served 6 tummies were served on our table.

I am a chilli freak! Bak Kut Teh taste better and *exciting* when you eat them with this green chillies!

Rice became tastier with the crispy, golden brown onions!

Look at the first bowl of our Bak Kut Teh! Its different compared to the morning version. At night, there were tangy, white fish balls to go well with this. Not only that, there were plenty of mushroom which comes from different "species", though they are from the same umbrella. This time, there were no vegetables but still, it tempted me much! It tasted better, I guess. Perhaps, due to my love on Fish Balls which eventually created some personal bias :)

The second pot of our *Porkie* The sizzling, hot soup had really caught our attention! Nice, Nice and Nice!

The amount of Bak Kut Teh for 6 pax and it really made our day! Satisfied and it's sufficient. Time flied very quickly especially when food was the focus of the day. Within half an hour, our plates were merely empty and then, the chit chat session began. Seems that, after eating, people are much energetic to share and talk!

We were served with *Yau Char Kuey* too! Yum! Yum!

Look at the portion in my plate! He...:)

Previously, I would think that it is weird to eat Bak Kut Teh for dinner. Somehow, today's meal had really changed my mind. I wouldn't mind to dine in for Bak Kut Teh though the sun has rested well. To try this out, the shop is situated at Klang. (Opposite Maybank - somehow, it is near to the new roundabout in Klang) You can try the "Dry Bak Kut Teh" too with a pretty reasonable price.

RM 8.50 - 1 pax for wet BKT

RM 9.50 - 1 pax for dry BKT

(So, its up to you on how many pax you order)

Try this out!

Yum Yum!!

Ps: Guess that the saliva of the bf is flowing out! hehe :)

-Will Malaysia ban Facebook?-

2010-12-17T16:52:00.007+08:00

According to Malaysian Insider (http://www.themalaysianinsider.com/malaysia/article/shahidan-wants-facebook-banned-cites-national-security/), Facebook might be banned in Malaysia. The popular social networking sites which gained billions of users supports’ might be banned! The sites where most people would spend much time there would have to bid farewell to their BELOVED FACEBOOK! What else would you need to say??

Back then, I was a loyal Friendster user and honestly, I do not fancy Facebook. Though my friends kept recommending me to use Facebook, still I held on to my principle. However, things changed! Once I stepped in college, Facebook became the choice there, so, I, got myself a Facebook account. It has been 3 years and truly, I get connected with my long lost friends, upcoming events and lots more. Till up to date, I have 1093 friends in the list!

Facebook is a no harm site, in my opinion. It is somehow like “Love is blind”. To me, I never agree with that quotation. I always believe that love is not blind but LOVERS are blind. Same goes to Facebook. It is the pure usage which progress along with the IT and the development of technology but the culprits are always the USERS. People have misused the usage of Facebook which eventually threatens the nation’s security.

“If the website content poses a threat to national security and insults Islam, then it is unnecessary to have Facebook", quoted Datuk Seri Dr Shahidan Kassim. For this, I truly disagree with the banning of Facebook. Although Facebook might become the platform for people to transmit messages and etc, still, it is unfair for the government to ban them. Instead of banning it, I think that government should educate people on the usage of IT. Most public listed companies use Facebook to spread the updates and the current status to their fans such as Google. Keeping the public informed is the core and a way to keep us up to date. I believe that people from all stages of life would need this information including the media. When I was an intern and I was assigned to do some research, some of the information could only be accessed through Facebook. Even the original site does not provide much information on that. For example, info on Apa – Apa Aje programme in TV3.

Hence, if the site is banned, where do people posses all this information?? After all, how many sites can you banned?? Are you going to ban WIKILEAKS too for sharing the true story to the public??? Do you want the citizens to be under-educated or a simple idiom of “Katak di Bawah Tempurung”??

It’s really a key topic to be discussed in Malaysia. I wouldn’t want Facebook to be banned as I believe with Facebook, we can move further. We can move on par with those developing countries, receive the updates on our social network, and I believe that there are more for us to explore. I still think that Malaysia is still not ready to be independent like China in banning the sites.

Who knows Facebook can become the second GOOGLE??

*Hmmm....

Grand Opening of Tony Roma's at Jalan Yap Kwan Seng!

2010-12-12T14:30:00.007+08:00

Time flies and two days before my internship ends, I witnessed and participated at the latest Tony Roma’s outlet opening. On the 9^th December 2010, it was the grand opening of Tony Roma’s at Jalan Yap Kwan Seng. In conjunction to this, “Tony’s Day Party” was hosted and dedicated to all Tony’s from all stages of life to join us.

Title: The briefing that took place before the show begins

20 lucky shortlisted Tony’s were put through some exciting games whereby they challenged one another to win the ultimate prize. In fact, the winner would won a lifetime supply of Tony Roma’s. How nice it is, right?? Sad to say, my name is not any of the pronunciation with Tony. Unless I come out with a name of “SHirTOny”..Sounds nice??

Title: Writers started to flow in.

Tony’s Day Party became much merrier with the presence of the local actresses, Chelsia Ng and the emcee for that night was no other than the bubbly celebrity, Azura Zainal.

Title: The Emcee of tonight

In fact, I was assigned to usher the media, assist in game and etc. Somehow, some statements from the Group CEO and the co-founder of Grandpolitan Sdn Bhd caught my attention. He signed an agreement whereby he had to open 4 outlets over the 4 years. However, what made this opening a special ones was they were actually opening the fifth outlet – Tony Roma’s at Yap Kwan Seng in a little over 4 years. Not to forget, there is another outlet which is going to be open soon in One Mount Kiara. Well, this shows how much Grandpolitan company has been progressing over this 4 years. As an appreciation, Mr George Ang was presented with two awards in conjunction with the outlet opening in Yap Kwan Seng and the coming soon outlet in One Mont Kiara.

Title: The man of Tony Roma's with 2 awards, The man with celebs

To celebrate Tony’s Party with thrill, joy and unforgettable memories, all the guests were treated with Tony Roma’s signature dishes and it’s all up to the guests to choose, according to your liking. To add the spices of the day, guests are treated with bottomless drinks for Fruit Punch and Carlsberg!

Title: The energetic team that turned the event to a big success!

Things to add on, Tony Roma’s is famous with ribs and I believe it is a good place to hang out with great food and great company especially the new outlet in Yap Kwan Seng! I seriously impress with it and personally, I love the island bar. For those who prefer the calming atmosphere, they can escaped to the corners of the restaurant outside meanwhile for those who love party, they can chilled out at the island bar.

Title: The GO Commers! Go, GO, GO!!

Once everything ended, the GO Commers never miss out the opportunity to take some good shot at the glamour wall. That was the best gift that I ever had! Once we had filled our tummy, we headed to Delicious to have a farewell for me. Thanks to my supervisor for everything!!

Title: Liza and Vanessa (My supervisor)!

Signing off,

Shirley

NEW OUTLET OF TONY ROMA'S IN YAP KWAN SENG!!

2010-12-06T19:02:00.004+08:00

NEW outlet of Tony Roma's in Yap Kwan Seng!

For the first time ever in the history of its establishment, Tony Roma's is organizing a Tony's Day party in conjunction with the Grand Opening on this coming Thursday - 9th December 2010. The signature restaurant that features a variety of ribs is adding "amazing" events by inviting all named Tony or similar to the sound of Tony to this party.

Everything will be free on that day! Get yourself to try the full range of ribs and mingle around in the newest outlet of Tony Roma's at Yap Kwan Seng. Getting yourself more into it??? Simply sign up with us by giving your name, contact number, email address and a recent photograph. With this, you are entitled to win exclusive invites to the Tony's Day party.

In addition, 20 lucky Tony's will participate in our Tony of Tonys competition. The winner would stand a chance to win a lifetime supply of its World's Famous Ribs!! What are you waiting for?? Quickly post me your details and I will get back to you in a real quick time!! Looking forward for your participation!!

Ps: If you are not Tony but wish to participate in this competition, please drop me the comment ya.

Wagyu Beef!

-Christmas with STARBUCKS-

2010-12-05T20:38:00.005+08:00

Its the 5th of December 2010. In other words, 20 more days for Christmas to come and this year, I am really looking forward for it. Thinking about my past, last year, I celebrated my Christmas in Singapore with my fellow friends. However, this year...Hmm...we shall see what God has planned for me!

Indeed, 4 more days and I will have to say bye bye to my company and tentatively, I have few programs that are lining up before I officially heading back to my college. Outing with my Leos, camps, date with the bf (missing him loads) are a total activities that take up my time. What about myself??

Hmm..I want shopping which I have not done any shopping spree for months, ever since Internship begins..I want to go to Green Box to scream my lungs out..I want to watch all my movies which are piling up from time to time...I want to read the unfinished books before I head back to assignments and test..I need to learn some baking skills...I want to do lots of things in such a short time frame...grh!! Can I have more time???

p/s:My new short hair!

Therefore, for this Christmas, I am getting myself...STARBUCKS Coffee!!!! With the 2 featured Christmas drink that are Toffee Nut Frappuccino and Pepper Mint Frappuccino, this would make our day with a big smile. So, in the month of December especially 25th of December 2010, stay tune with STARBUCKS!!! Grab yourself a cup of it and make this the most memorable day of yours. Only with STARBUCKS!

Cheers!

With that, good night!

SEAMASTER IS GIVING PAINTS AWAY, FOR FREE!!!

2010-12-04T20:41:00.006+08:00

SEAMASTER gave away 500,000 cans of 5 litres paint to the public!!!! The "gave away" has started from yesterday and it would last to tomorrow. In fact, I wasn't aware of this until my mum got us to go JJ with her vouchers. Since I couldn't sleep well yesterday, I woke up super early and followed them to the morning market before headed to JJ.

It was 10am and the queue in the Jusco was super long. I even heard from the helpers that some people even slept there and some were there since 8am. They waited for the free 5 litres paint. I was pretty shocked to see the long queue and unconsciously, I joined the line though I did not have the voucher. Being the typical "aunty" habit in me, all this promotions and gifts definitely attract me. Looking at the sincerity in us to queue in such a long line, they gave us another 2 vouchers (my sister and I).

Not to say that I am being a typical aunty, but, with a 5 litre can of paint, you could definitely save nearly RM 100. Though its not much, yet I felt so happy when I joined the queue and get this 5 litre of paint. Haha..If the bf is here with me, I would definitely get him to join me in this "challenging aunty game". Wonder would he join the aunty game, right?? Haha..After all, looking at the economy of the world, it is better for us to be thrifty and do not spend on unnecessary things, right?? Petrol price increase, sugar price increase and sooner or later, some of the needed items in life would increase too. Only one thing that would remains and it is none other than SAlAry. So, no choice la..Have to be aunty, no matter what!!

Good experience to expose to this free gift event and a very good strategy marketing skills from SEAMASTER. They might look as if they are losing money in distributing the paint for free. However, to look in a deeper view, it is actually the profit earning strategy. I believe the business students would agree with me..

P/s: Many things coming ahead!!

Cheers!!

Help needed!

2010-12-03T09:05:00.003+08:00

Help needed! This time, I have really hurt the bf. My statement had caused him heartbreak. His heart is experiencing a big PPPRRAAANNNGG!!!! I didn't know that my statement has caused him a very big impact. However, after I evaluate the matter, I felt that I am absolutely wrong. I was total wrong but I can't say anything much for now. He would be thinking that I am stating all this, just to make him feel better.

I need some help here!!! What is your suggestions le??...Hmmm...
Sorry bf..
Don't sad sad la. If I would, I wish to take back all my words lo.
Okie la. Let you grant a wish la and Ill try to fulfill it^^
Say cheese la!!

Thanks!

The period that I have gone through so far ^^

2010-11-29T17:39:00.006+08:00

After going through some blogs, it urged me to blog too. Reason being was I just love to write and share my journey of life with people around me. Though the bf does not prefer me in sharing the story publicly, still he never stops me from blogging. He knows that I am a “hard core gal” and there isn’t any ways to stop me from doing something that I really want to. He knew that I am such a stubborn gal still he is always by my side. ^^

Time flies and 2 weeks more, I have to bid farewell to my company. My internship period is coming towards the end. No doubt to say, I have been going through the ups and downs and I did learn a lot of things especially about PR industry. I even managed to attend a few big events that were organized during my time when I was in internship. Call me LUCKY as I was really exposed to a lot of things.

Ta – da!! This was what I meant. I know I am going through the tanned – skin process for free. Hooking up to this event, get to know people from different media houses were a blast. Managed to have a chit chat session with the CEO of Sunway Lagoon and get to know him in person was total a blessing from God.

Look at this! Posers while the crowd was pretty subside. Still, we did walk a lot, entertained the media, tummy got the taste of yummy food and all this were in the IHT Conference – the presence of Richard Branson. Nah!! I didn’t get the chance to shake his hand but I managed to see him from far. ^^

I was wondering how many food review have I attended especially for Tony Roma’s?? The clients knew me well and frankly speaking, I am not a person who fancy beef. Still, I go for it and I love their fries. No wonder, I am growing side ways instead of other way round.

The sleepy Shirley had to start working though the sun was still resting. There were lots of events such as Manhattan Fish Market Food Review, Sneak Preview of Peter Pan the Musical, Gala Premiere of Peter Pan, OSIM events, business presentation with the top management and etc. Sincerely, I learnt a lot!

(I didnt lift my head because it would be damn obvious. Hehe. Curious??)

The Shirley will soon back into her action. Wonder how is her life going to be without her precious companion that is LEO Club?? Hmm…We shall see on the upcoming post especially next year. Who knows she would probably turns into an angelic gal who always stick to her room and goes online everyday or who knows she ended up party-ing everyday?? Let the time to prove it!

I’m gonna miss my company. That’s for sure. Wouldn’t talk more here but will post about it once I left the company. Hehe..So, stay tuned!

Different people, different attitude!

2010-11-24T07:46:00.006+08:00

Do you agree with the statement that I put today?? "Different people, different attitude". From the minute we stepped into this world, we are actually different. We are special in our own way and we engage to our own personalities. The one who "outstand" our personalities and enhance our capabilities, talents are always our beloved parents. To them, we were like a piece of blank white paper and it is their responsibilities to shape their children. Cutting it short, though parents have spend their effortless time in guiding their children, still, due to the influence of the society, they are "diverted" from their exact path.

Those who have a strong personalities will withhold their principle and wouldn't be easily influenced. This is where some reach to the corporate ladder while some are being thrown with drugs, alcohol, gangsterism and etc. It is a pity to see youngsters today are behaving negatively in the society. Well, what else can we say?? Therefore, educate your children is the most vital thing ya.

Let me share my experience here. I have encountered people with different attitudes. Some even engaged to double faces which I believe that most of you have this type of friends. People are just unpredictable. Sometimes, they can be extremely good and sometimes, they can be extremely sarcastic. The extremely good in the sense that, when they need your help, they will be "hehe" and "haha" with you. However, when you need their help, they will turn you off. Well, I believe it happens to everyone, right.

Some people could excel in their life and become:-

The CEO of AirAsia which eventually ease the life of the poor and middle class people to travel around, meanwhile, some will ended up with a rotten life like this:-

,

I wouldn't want my life to be like all this and I will want to have a "yakid" life. Haha..I doubt you would understand what "yakid" means. Only certain people which probably 0.01% will understand it as I might spelt it wrong too. Who knows I would be the future Prime Minister of Malaysia (kononnya-lah) or who knows I am someone in the society like Nelson Mandela.

The glory that I am going to aim for, perhaps. 10 years down the road...or probably 15 years time..Well, we shall see..^^

Say cheese!

PS: Pictures are cited from Google Images.com

Signing off,
Shirley

New Blog Design!

2010-11-16T15:49:00.004+08:00

Time flies so fast and I'm on my 13 weeks of internship. A month later, I will be sitting at home and spend my time with my family. Later on, I will be off to college to complete my degree and I will be officially involve myself in the working industry. WOW!! That's fast. In a blink, I have reached my TWENTY! I am no longer with the term of "teens". Well, that doesn't mean that I am old ya. I am still eighteen and IM always eighteen ^^.

Between, I am lately addicted to the new template of the blog. Thanks to Raymond for rising my addiction in this matter. Previously, my blog is so dull and being a typical Chinese gal, I love originality and I refused to change the template. I was worried that all my posts would be missing at the end of the day. Somehow, shutting my ears and taking the challenge to change the template had really tested me. It screamed loudly and I just pretended as if I do not care on the changes when Raymond did everything for me. Thanks to the changes and now, I am in love with my blog. the new template was awesome. What do you guys think?? I felt I'm in the winter season where the snowflakes fall and I'm making the snowball, throwing to one another. How sweet it is??

Muacks!

Cheers..

Extreme Cheesy 6 is out in PIZZA HUT!

2010-11-13T22:58:00.010+08:00

Extreme Cheesy 6 Pizza is out in the market. Well, I had gone through some bloggers who commented how delicious this Extreme Cheesy 6 Pizza was. In fact, I am looking forward for trying this pizza out since I am a cheese lover, so why not??

I hopped into the Pizza Hut in Nilai on 13th November with Raymond and surprisingly, the outlet was packed with human beings. Yes, HUMAN beiNGs!!! Previously, when I went there during the weekend, it was empty but not this time. I just couldn't imagine how bad their services were. They could just ignored you and I was actually wondering what was wrong with the people and also the outlet. When you asked for the menu, they gave you a big stare and ignored you.

Due to our liking towards CHEESE, we thought its okie to give in. THE usage of 6 CHEESES in A PIZZA really tempted us. TO be honest, I only heard of 3 cheeses that were cheddar, mozzarella and parmesan. The other 3 cheeses were total strange to me. Perhaps, Malaysians never encountered this cheeses or perhaps, I am just the "ulu" one who do not notice the presence of this provolone, monterey jack and romano.

Well, to add the flavour and taste of the pizza, we added the "Extreme Chicken" toppings and it charged us RM 2 for that. We had the Honey BBQ wings as our side orders too. Not much comment on the Honey BBQ wings but the coating of the chicken wings was pretty thick. The chicken wings weren't fresh too..Raymond stated that he was eating the flour instead... Hmm..

Talking about the PIZZA, we were hoping for the "WOW" reaction. However, it left us with the "HAR" words. The topping that charged us RM 2.00 didn't seem to be worth. A few slice of sausages and a few chunks of chicken on it. I could just easily count them and I believe its not more than 10 of each. Skipping to that, we took a big mouthful of the pizza to ensure that we had the full grasp of the REAL CHEEZY TASTE...but, its a no way..We weren't that fascinated with the taste of the pizza. I felt it a bit salty and I thought it might because of the Honey BBQ Wings. So, I asked Raymond and he was giving me the same response too. The Pizza seriously left us with a bad impression and the combination of the 6 cheeses was a fail pizza. Or perhaps, its due to the outlet who made the pizza and there was nothing to do with the 6 cheeses of it. Well, I have no idea on that!

EXTREME CHEESY 6 PIZZA

Look at the toppings!!!

*Haiz. I got to eat all this pizza...I regretted..WOooo* quoted by Raymond ^^

Its just that, if I were given a chance or suppose to give recommendations to my friends, I will go for the normal Hawaian Chicken which taste way better than EXTREME CHEESY 6.

Signing off,

SHirley

The food Lover^^

Memories for QQ

2010-11-08T08:40:00.004+08:00

You came into my life on the 26^th of September 2010. That day was Sunday and we were celebrating dad’s and sis’s birthday. The first time when I saw you, I was damn afraid. I could not help it but to avoid you. I was asking myself, how am I supposed to adapt to my life with the presence of you around? Time flies and eventually, you and I became the good friends.

You were the one who welcomed me and got me when I reached home from office.

You were the one who tailed me whenever I go even, just to kitchen.

You were the one who slept on my lap and cuddled with me.

You were the one who create my anger when you passed out.

You were the one who I kept asking my parents to let you in.

You were the one who let my tears to flow.

You were the one who created the argument between my dad and I.

You were the one who created a strong bonding and connection with me.

On the 8^t^h of November 2010, you left me. You left my family too. Didn’t we know that you actually affected us so deeply. All were so saddened and depressed with your loss. We couldn’t do much extra but to send our prayers and bless you always. Thanks for being such good companion with us throughout the 2 months and memories shall never fade. The hopping, jumping, “tam chiak” QQ will always live in our memories.

May God bless You.

Truly, Madly, Deeply

2010-11-07T13:01:00.002+08:00

Reading "Sunday Star" newspaper while listening to the "Kiss" song that I have shared in Facebook, in such a breezy day was truly a serene, peace moments that I have encountered and I enjoyed them. Somehow, I could feel the true Sunday atmosphere and I felt so relaxed. The song was awesome and I had been listening to it several times for this few days. Perhaps, some of them are tired of me when I kept telling them to "Replay and replay and replay"...

After browsing the printed newspaper for nearly two hours, there was an article that took my attention. It was in the FOCUS section, page F25. I recommended all of you to read it. The title of the article was "Truly, Madly and Deeply". Short summary of the story was age and distance never fails the true love. Though the man (Yuan) was in love with the gal (Li), still they chose to break up because Yuan had married to another woman that was arranged by his family. Li, the understanding woman knew about it and encouraged a break up with Yuan though they were into each other as they just weren't want to hurt an innocent gal and they lost contact with one another. Soon, Li migrated and looking at the previous era, only letters could keep them in touch. Sometimes, the God was playing with them that their letter did not reach to the other person. Only some letters succeeded. Years came and Yuan's sister in law found out this. She was the one to encourage Yuan to send the letter to Li as her mother in law had passed away in year 1994.

Li wasn't engaged to anyone as she could not forget Yuan though she has been stepping her golden age. Later on, she received a letter from Yuan, asking her to come back to visit and stay with him. With the arrangement of Yuan's sister in law, she made her way, back to China and Yuan proposed to her with 55 roses in the airport, expressing his long lasting love towards Li. The story might sounds so artificial but its the true story and now, they are living with Yuan's third son. What they are engaging now was holding hands everyday without fail, walking on the beach every morning, and have a chit chat session everyday. Though they are already in their eighties, still they believe the true love never dies and will move on.

This article really impressed me. Though two persons are already in their tertiary stage, still they hold strong to one another. True love still exist! But why do we still face so much of divorce cases in the society? Is it people nowadays do not value the presence of another? They do not appreciate with what they have? Or they are just ego and keeps demanding for something better in their life? In fact, there isn't the statement of the both parties are not compatible to live together for years or they have not met the right person. It's the matter of you chose the person to live with and definitely, you have to work it out.

Life is too short for you to demand and regret. Be happy with what you have and live to the fullest. Check on the MV of KISS song. You would know the true meaning of Love-Sacrifice! Appreciate the person who always stand with you, always love them for who they are. Wish all of you " Happy Valentine's Day". Don't you ever think that I'm mad because it is not the month of February. But use your heart and feel it that Its actually Valentine's Day, everyday. Pick up your phone and express your love to your dearest one. A simply "I Love You" will eventually make their day. God Bless!

Signing off,

Shirley^^

FAMILY VS CAREER

2010-11-02T08:27:00.003+08:00

I have no idea with the blog. Although I have "font, colored", still, it only appeared in the original color. Whatever it is, the content stays important, right?

Lets discuss the topic of "Career VS Family". Indeed, this is highly discussed in the radio and people were calling in to give comment in this issue. In fact, the era has changed. Previously, people would be prioritizing family first. Regardless whether you have career or not, a man should build their family. And thats the reason why our parents have so many siblings. Weren't their mum tired of giving birth?? hahah..Well, thats how people live. They married in a very young age and women were treated like sex machine. Their job is to give birth and take care of the family. Neither they have to worry on their financial status and etc. People living in that era, still can live happily, stressless and happy go lucky.

However, coming to this new era, the thought of this has diminished. Instead of family, people are prioritizing CAREER. Regardless how you look at it, both men and women are highly concerned in this issue. Nowadays, there are a high percentage of female to involve in the working industry in all professions. No doubt to say, women have the sense of ego-ness where they do not want to depend on the guys and thats the reason, they work. However, looking at it, why would the women work if the guy could give them a sense of security and protection?

Women today are pretty much realistic and I believe it happens to the guys. If the guy do not has a career, how could he assure the gals' happiness? How would the gal said a YES answer to guy to build the family when the guy could not even afford to bear the living? Its pretty realistic now. Same goes to the guy. If the women are not independent, the guy would feel burden and pressured (Unless you are from a very rich family background)

So, coming to this, dont you think that career is important??Without career, without the sense of security and protection. Without that, how to build a family?? Am I right? Hence, the olden days thought could no longer be applied in our generations as the daily expenses has increases tremendously. We could not even buy much thing with RM 50. Houses are damn expensive, if you notice. For a single meal of a day, you need at least RM 10. So, isn't the career important??

Im not trying to say that GALS are materialistic but this is the fact. It is the SENSE OF SECURITY. Gals are attached to the men for the reason of security. Hence, MEN!!- Please provide the security to the female and for WOMEN, be independent. Do not always rely on men..Remember that, with career,everything comes along!!

For rich kids, you are lucky because you are from the rich family. So, utilize that "richness" and develop something that benefits you in the future. Stop being ego for the wealth you have and use them all. Its a sad thing though. Be mature and start planning!

Ps: Its just my thoughts to share. You may agree or disagree with me. Regardless what it is, thanks for reading! Cheers!

Carezz,

Shirley

Award Presentation-October 2011

2010-10-29T08:15:00.002+08:00

God is always fair and you never know,

Till you fall and He is here to bring you up.

*The moment of receiving the award*

Lucky Wednesday (27.10.10) was back when I headed to my university for the award presentation. I missed my LEOS, my friends, my lecturers, my roommate and I just missed Inti's life. I felt so happy once I got the chance to meet them up. Its just so miracle for things to happen. You wouldn't appreciate your life there when you are deep stuck in it. Once you left, then only you would be able to feel the sense of belonging and the atmosphere there. Ever since I come for internship, I always advice the people around me that " Always live to the fullest when you are back in college. Never complaint about assignment. School is always the best place for everything." After all, once you are out in the society, your priority is different. You can't spend much time on your entertainment and you rarely have the time to spend with friends. Hardly Yam Cha session, shopping and all. All you could do is during the weekends only.

Shirley, Pikachu and Deric Chong

Deric and Shirley

Roses are red. It always stay strong and the color never fades. It always stays among the greens. Though many distractions around them, still the strong belief that they hold, they manage to outstand everything and overcome all the circumstances. This is why Roses always symbolises LOVE. Love never fails

The ladies in Mass Communication. Congratulations!

EVON JIE!!!!!!!! The most helpful and sexy gal..^^

Thats why my purpose of my 3rd year degree in college would be never regret and enjoy my privileges, being a student there. In fact, thanks to my supervisor for allowing me to leave the office earlier. Or else, I wouldnt be able to reach my college in time. Award ceremony was held in Sports Hall due to the renovation of MPH and the bf was so sweet and delivered a bouquet of roses to me. It was surprising when the DATUK came to me and pondering who was the one who gave me the flowers. They got the wrong answer though. Its the bf.^^

*^^*

Bf was pretty busy as Street Party was held in the evening and many things had to be done. He was busy entertaining his task and I only had the chance to take two pictures with him. Though I had gone for internship for months and we did faced lots of ups and downs, still, appreciate him for always being such an understanding person.

*hugs*

Street Party!!!! Gosh!!! Its fabulous. Never I expected with tons of students there. Everyone was so "high-ed" up and pretty much, all were enjoying..Dancing, Roaring and all...The mission of IHRB is achieved. The vision of the man who created this campus life is achieved. Satisfaction is there to see all this happenings. I understand how it felt when things had ended in a very special way while your dream had achieved. You are speechless and you just cant help it but to smile. You felt so grateful towards your committee for standing with you and help you to achieve the dream. IHRB, you guys did it. I was there at night. I could see the mutual cooperation among you guys. Truly, I kind of envy you guys. In fact, I was wondering, what kind of power that made you guys so "intimate and bind" to each others??? I seriously envy you guys..but of course, in a good way. You all had the "special OOhmm" that bond you all together. The spirit of you all, the "together-ness" of you all could be seen clearly and purely. Keep this up!! Keep this spirit in IHRB. Show to others that you all are different and I believe that you guys are different. Indeed, IHRB, you guys are one step ahead compared to others in achieving your dream. Congratulations! If I am going to be any OC of events, I would definitely want a kind of team like you all. Definitely.! OC-Xin Yee, good job ya in leading your team well. ^^

The gal who made all this happening. Miss her much..^^ Thanks Lu yue..We shall *gossip gossip* in some other time oo..haha..all the best ya

With that,

Take care and smile always.

BEst regards,

SHirley Teo

Pictures are UP!!!!!!!!!

2010-10-21T12:32:00.005+08:00

FLOWRIDER LAUNCH!!!! More to come!!! Grab some magazines especially the November issue about this activity.!!! Cheers and with love, Shirley

Moody

2010-10-20T14:36:00.002+08:00

Sigh...I am moody now....Any remedies please???

Launching Flowrider in Sunway Lagoon.

2010-10-15T19:35:00.007+08:00

Have you ever met CEO of a company who is being super active and sporting? Have you ever met a person who acted pretty spontaneous in front of the media? Have you found the person who is always positive minded? Well, at this special of today, I was given the opportunity to meet the CEO of Sunway Lagoon in person and had a few words with him. Again, thanks to the Internship that Im engaged on now, I had the chance to launch the Flowrider in Sunway Lagoon. This time, the event was by our team and hence, it was a crazy week for us.

Organizing event with a bunch of "psycho" was a fun thing. Although we tend to be so serious when we are in the office, yet, when come to the event, we still portray our own personality. Our "saiko" personality. No doubt to say that it was a tiring moment but I had fun. I love Winx man. She is such a bubbly gal. She was a previous intern here and now, she is the official member of GO Communications. She is a fun gal to talk with, easy going and fabulous person. But Im sorry to all the guys as she is taken!.

Talking about the launching, I had to usher the media to the surfing area and it was not near. It was kind of far..Still, I enjoyed it although I was drenched with sweat and leg started to yell. Indeed, I had the chance to do the flowrider but sad to say, its better not to do at this moment. First of all, my leg is still buried with the wound and secondly, I brought shirt and pants ni. I should bring my swimming suit la..hahaha...

Okie..Relating to my first paragraph, I seriously respect the CEO of Sunway Lagoon. He is none other than Mr Aaron Soo. Sporting guy who always put the purpose of others first than prioritize on himself. During our refreshment, the PR team had the time to settle down and chit chatted with him. He was sharing his experience and story. Always live to the fullest so that you have no regret in the future. He is reaching 50s with his 2 sons, still he can play around and jump around happily. Even the Flowrider! He launched it and within a minute, he took off his shirt and went off to surf. Surprisingly right! Where got CEO acting so "saiko " and crazy de?? That is why we only have the only Mr Aaron Soo and not more.

He has been going through lots of things and he learnt a lot in life. He is Christian indeed and he read the book of "the Purpose to Driven". Hopefully, I got it right. Most Christians will know about this book and apparently, I have this book too^^ Of course, thanks to the bf! He is not that strict towards on what he is doing anymore. If he feels like doing it, he will just go for it without thinking twice and planning. What he believes is no point you plan and plan and think...JUST GO STRAIGHT TO THE POINT AND DO IT! Like the Niki Slogan right, JUST DO IT!!. Even at his age now, he still go for BungyJump.. hahah..

The things that really transform him totally was actually he met a life-death scenario before. Once he recovered, he recalled his time and wondered what has he done. He is actually a very good mentor to be with. Well, this was what I seen in him so far. Good personality, amazing character, Marvelous purpose of life and fabulous organizational skills. If in the future where I have time to meet him, I will be glad too..Looking forward for the Bungy Jump Launch. Hopefully, it is done during my internship *cross finger* Or else, Vanessa, please do include me in ya..hahahha^^

I was actually waiting the pictures that would send by Aris from Malaysia Today. He has not send to me yet. So, ya,..lets the words to talk about this lo..^^

Signing off,

SHirley Teo

RED CROCS!

2010-10-14T09:13:00.005+08:00

Its been a long day since I last updated my post. I was pretty busy with the tons of assignments yet at the same time, I did have my ups and downs moments. Pictures would be uploaded soon with cross hand ya.

Talking about it, I have something to share. Indeed, I have been on my internship for nearly 8 weeks and this is the first time, I am going in to office without heels. The reason was I have two wounds on my right leg. *Thanks to the IHT Conference*. hahaha...So, pretty much, I go in to the office with my striking, red CROCS sandals and I keep bursting to laughter. Instead of "pek chek", I keep telling myself to have a positive mindset and this is where I burst into laughter. It is super weird to match with your formal outfit. Matter turns worse when I am wearing hot pink blouse with black pants and the CROCS sandals. Haha.. I should be proud to show off my CROCS right??^^

Hahaha...Laugh and laugh and laugh. I am actually talking to myself in car and wonder how foolish am I to dress up in this way. It does entertain my day too with this outfit.. Instead of getting my day starts with tremendous complaints and negative emotions, I start my day pretty well although I face bad stuff early in the morning. Eventhough I am crammed with tons of assignments although it is Thursday today (which supposingly to be a settling day for most of the people), it does not happen to me, for this week LAH..haha..Its the time for monthly report and tomorrow, there will be an official launch of FLOWRIDER in Sunway Lagoon at 3pm. For those who are free, please go and have a look. Exciting moments and unexpected shot would be there to surprise you all. DOnt believe?? Then, do drop by to SUnway Lagoon at the Surf Beach at 3pm. I will be there too.!! ^^

OOps@...its 9.19am. I call for an off now. Stay tune with my updates and I will post more pictures soon.

With that, cheers and be happy always.
Start your day with a big smile and do not complaint. Just smile and smile!!..

Signing off,
Shirley with her RED CROCS!!

Something to share^^

2010-09-22T08:45:00.002+08:00

Sat quietly in the Starbucks while becoming an observant. Its something that I rarely do but I did it today, just to avoid the emotional disturbance. Indeed, I found out that, most couples (what I meant here is the husband and wife who works), they will have their breakfast together by heading to the restaurant with two separate cars. They would park their cars, side by side..and the wife is always the one who drives big car like Volvo, Camry and etc, and poor husband who gets to drive on the normal car like Corolla but not Proton cars though^^..When they finished taking their breakfast, they would enter the car, simultaneously and the husband always let the wife to drive off first while he is following her back..

Somehow, it really feels so nice as I thought the culture of this has diminished. Never I know that, in a busy city, people still care their loved ones and always try their best to spend some time together even for a simple breakfast. It really impressed me. Hope that this culture would continues and never "extinct". For couples who practice this, well done. You are one step ahead from the rest of the couples in this world.

Cheers and hope that, today is gonna be a good good day.

Signing off,
Shirley

GOSH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2010-09-18T18:51:00.002+08:00

Thanks to my itchy hand...I changed my design layout and now, I lost all my contacts and my CHATBOX!!!! HELP is needed..How to retrieve back??? or how to insert them back???

HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

MUNCH Cafe

2010-09-18T17:51:00.007+08:00

After getting some groceries in Tesco Hypermarket, headed to MUNCH Cafe for a short tea session. Pretty much, Munch Cafe is situated in Bukit Tinggi whereby it is situated opposite Tesco Hypermarket. Indeed, the concept for this cafe is more to Japanese style and we got ourselves a few dishes.

The above dish was Tofu Bento Rice which costed RM 12.90. Dad ordered that and this dish suited the vegetarians. I got myself a try and I love the tofu. The methods to cook the tofu really impressed me whereby the spices blend very well..

This dish was ordered by my sister. Deep Fried Chicken Ramen which costed Rm 10.90. Personally, I felt that there isn't any specialty for this. It is just a normal ramen and for those who prefer originality of a dish, then, this ramen suits you^^

Meanwhile, this Tofu ramen costed RM 13.90 was ordered by my mum. It is nice. I prefer this compared to the deep chicken ramen. The spices were sufficient enough to create the tempting smell and for those who love spicy food, this is the best^^

Among all the food that were ordered, I love this the most. Its known as Chicken Skewers which costed Rm 5.50. NICE..thumb up for this. The "terriyaki" has really outstand the chicken and for those who wanted a try in MUNCH Cafe, please do not miss out this. Its their hot seller..So, give a try!!!

Indeed, the price is pretty reasonable and the boss was nice enough in welcoming us to try their new food. They wish to sell this two food in the upcoming month and asking us to comment about it..So, we are like the "food commentator" and they did accept our comments with open heart..At the same time, the boss recommend us to try the tomyam ramen and the fried rice..heheh...People, if your drop by Bukit Tinggi, feel free to visit Munch Cafe.

Signing off,

Shirley^^

What else can I say??

2010-09-17T14:52:00.003+08:00

What Else Can I say?? Thats today's topic. I am going to share my life experience with all of you. Indeed, I have no idea whether to label myself as a lucky person or its just so called my faith in life..I have no idea..Everything seems to move very smoothly. All my prayers are answered..All my wishes are grant..All my hopes are slowly achieved..All my intuition and feelings are so so true..What else do I need now?? What else can I say??

I have more than anyone else has in this world.. I have much valuable things that not many people have and God is fair enough to grant me one.. I might not as rich as other people whereby they get to travel to overseas from time to time, I might not as beautiful and sexy like the super model on the runway, I might not be as smart as Albert Einstein where people wanted his brain so badly, I might not be the one who always get to eat such delicious food in the world..and in fact, I have nothing special in me..NOTHING!!

Somehow, God is fair enough that I have something which I truly treasure it and for this, not many people could obtain it. I gain LOVE. Aside from gaining the pure, genuine love from my beloved family, on the 31st December 2009, I was again being rewarded the word "love" by the bf..Although we started the relationship at a very *peace in mind*, somehow, we slowly develop and our relationship become stronger when challenges, obstacles are always there to test us. Upset moments, suffering moments, all we have been through. Shedding tears, sharing laughter, are what we gained too.

Though I was in internship, his words of encouragement always accompany me. He always be the one to come to the rescue and bring me out whenever I fail and fell down..He held my hands and tell me that "I will be supporting you always" though sometimes, he doesn't like the action and behavior that I engaged to.. He tries not to fail me and always be there whenever I need help. He could sacrifice his time, just for a gal who doesn't has anything in her. He willing to sacrifice himself, just for a gal whom he love.

So, what else can I say?? I have someone who protects me, loves me and cares for me. This is all I need. From stranger, we move to acquaintances..Later on, we took one step ahead and became friends. From friend to best friends and now, here we are. The journey wasn't long and wasn't short. There are still a long path in front of us..Whether the path is dark or bright, its up to us to work it out. ^^

Same goes to all couples. Arguments will definitely occur as this is the way for you to know them better. DO not let this arguments to become the barrier of your love.Always show your concern to your partner eventhough you cant help much as this meant a lot to them..No one wants a bad ending for their relationship..None of us are perfect..but since you have chosen him/her, then do appreciate them..This is because we do not fall in love that easily. Once we fall, then this shows there is something between us. No Mr Right or Mrs Right..But there is Mr/Mrs Workable..Relationship is not about one person but its include both party. Love their weaknesses and accept them on who they are.

For now, thanks bf for sharing your love with me. Thanks for what you have done and truly in heart, you know what I wanna say..* **** ***.

Truly,

SHirley

Updates Updates Updates!!!!!!!!!!!1

2010-09-15T09:53:00.008+08:00

It's the 4th week of my internship^^...Time passes so fast and I have about 10 more weeks to go with my company before I head back to my university and enjoy my 3rd year degree there. Indeed, I was fortunate enough to meet up with my few MGSians before one of them (Yamunaah) leaves to Russia. I do apologize for requesting to leave early but I have no choice. I have to work today. Therefore, we (Ming Hwei, Wen Ling, Sook Fun and Yam)had our dinner in Kim Gary's and pretty much, we had a good time of chit chat session. Hanging out with the gals in a small group is always better as you get to gossip and updates one another better. No doubt to say, I reached my home about 10.15pm. Today would be another day for me to hang out with my college-mates..I miss them so much and we are going to meet in MidValley. I am looking forward for this reunion with them. THE CFA GANG!!!!

However, I am terrified too. I have to drive all the way to MidValley from Damansara and I do not know the way there. No doubt to say, my driving skill isn't that good and what else my parking skills. Grh!!..Oh God..I do need your help in assisting me a safe journey to Midvalley without losing my direction and at the same time, guiding me back to Klang once I am done..

It's the first time, I am so worried about driving. The bf does feel weird on why I do behave in this way. Indeed, I have no idea. Its all within my self and it lies at the bottom of my heart, without I knowing the reason..Gosh!!!....

Talking bout my past, I was pretty happy and excited. Due to Raya, I had holiday on Friday. The bf came over to my place and he had a good chit chat session with my dad, instead. We went to Pantai Morib and Bagan Lalang. After that, we had a very filling dinner at Telok Gong. The whole day was all about food. We were pretty full and satisfying, thanks to the Teo's couple..On Saturday, we went to KLCC to visit to the Bookfest and pretty much, I felt that the books were kind of expensive. I mean the books that I targeted at. So, I didn't get myself any books but a puzzle book for my mum. Then, headed to Shogun in One Utama to celebrate my bro's 21 birthday and again, the two "uncles" were having their great time in chit chatting. Dad is the one who loves talking and the bf is the one who loves to listen to others. So, they make a very good friends man..hahaha..On Sunday, it was the time to bid goodbye to the bf and of course, thanks to Yoong Ern and Stephen for coming to my house, just to pick the bf..^^...

I had fun during my weekend and I enjoyed it. That might be the only time I get to meet the bf as he is pursuing his Master now. His class is commencing on this Saturday. Wish him all the best ya and do not give up so easily. Don't stress up too. Be happy and smile always. Meanwhile, let the God to decide when we can meet up next. Perhaps, one month later, two months, three months, or today??..wahahha..am just daydreaming here..

Hmm..sharing my thoughts on movies..I personally feel that Piranha is way better than Resident Evil. The climax is too short and the thing that attract me is the zombie. The monster died too soon.. If I were to choose, I'll go for Piranha..haha..Although the time frame is short, at least it is full with suspense where we hardly predict what will happen next..Indeed, am waiting for Piranha 2 now..hahah...At this moment, I wish to watch Going Distance. Its a romance movie and I believe that most guys wouldn't want to watch it. So gals, anyone is up to this?? hahaha...

Be happy always and smile. Time waits for no one and wish me all the best for today's journey to Midvalley.

Cheers,

Shirley Teo

Quotation for today: Love is patient, love is kind, it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud, it is not rude, it is not self seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth, it always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.

Intern as a future Public Relation^^

2010-09-07T17:33:00.003+08:00

First post in the office after working for 10 days. Indeed, throughout this 10 days, I have learnt a lot of things. The down moments especially. I couldn't be complaining and all as I have 4 months to go. Since I have put myself into this industry, I will go for it. Though working as a Public Relation could be fun, enjoy and at the same time, frustration, still this is life. My passion in Public Relation would definitely shines off one day..I love PR but the jobs that you face are always adding and adding. It never stops. Perhaps, thats working life and it applies to everyone.

Moving on, study is always the best. I do not mind with tons of assignments, tests and events.. I love that more than any other things. This is because when you work, you are no longer doing it together with friends. You have to do it all by your own.. You have to learn it all by yourself and no one is going to help you. Your colleagues might be helping you for the first and second time. But as time passed by, its a no way. Its all by yourself. And now, I really hope to organize a night with my 14th Intima Leo Club committees..^^ especially Charity Night..haha..but I know its just a dream as everyone is leaving slowly. Again, thats life^^

Well, its just 4 months after all and I believe that I would definitely learn a lot of things especially I am under the supervision of my brand director. Her clients are all those big corporate company and no wonder, I was being asked to do monthly report on my third day of internship. So, no doubt to say, it would be pressuring and stressful but it will benefits me in the future.

God bless and for the rest of the interns, all the best. Life is like that. Accept it and move it on. No point complaining. Meanwhile, for the other students, all the best in studies. You have no time for the word "REGRET". Time waits for no one.

All the best and cheers^^

Ps: Thanks to the bf for always being a very supportive person that always stand with me especially during my down moments. Your words of encouragement does play a role. Smile^^

Best regards,

Shirley

August updates^^

2010-09-05T13:44:00.002+08:00

Its a long long time since I last updated my blog. I'm sorry..was really pretty busy entertaining my schedule..Anyhow, a short summary from me in August 2010.

a. Sat for my finals..

~Pretty challenging as I was hit by some serious matter during my finals. Thank God, I overcame it and went ahead with my finals..Study mode turned on at that time and entertainment mode was shut off.

b. Outing with the 13th Intima

~There were Raymond, Serene, Keng Huat, Deric and Megan (hopefully, I do not miss anyone ya)..Headed to Pavilion and had our dinner there. Then, of course at the same time, celebrated someone's birthday although its too early to do so..Had a great time with them and really apologized as because of me, we had to call an early off for the day..

b. China Trip

~Just after the outing with the 13th Intima, I had to go to the airport for my China Trip. 5 days and 4 Nights..Nice outing with my Mass Communication Friends..They are rocks man..hahah..especially at nite, whereby Pei Tien, Evon would come to our room and chit chatted..There was once, 4 of us (include Mango) went out from the hotel about 230am, just to buy maggi mee..Once we reached the shop, it started to rain..the 4 of us were like ..hahha..putting plastic on our head with the boxes around us and ran...Love the "sampat" moments with them..Even there was once, Jie Ying, Elena, Chin Pang, Evon, Pei Tien came to our room (Mango and I)..and they turned our room upside down..playing and laughing like nobody business and we slept nearly 4am..hahah..da craziness was always there man...Not to forget, we enjoyed the moment of being "Auntieness"- going to Shen Zhen and BARGAIN!!!!!!!! I love that and I grabbed lots of things during my trip there..^^

From 6.3 kg to China, I was loaded back with 12 kg..hahaha...geng le..hehe^^

c.My Birthday

~Once I reached LCCT, the bf picked me up there and took me to KL..Guess where??? He took me to LUNA BAR!!!..hahaha..the place that I wished to go for a long long time..We chilled out, chit chatted there and I love the scenery and atmosphere there..But darn, Its damn expensive..I guess RM 100 per person..I had no idea..We headed back about 3am and chatted till 6am..haha..geng rite??..After the 3 hours flight, I could still hang out..hehe..

d.My Birthday again

~RIght in the morning, I headed back to my home..Preparing my stuff for the next day internship..At night, I was thinking to reply all my birthday wishes and somehow, I heard somebody was singing birthday song, right beside my ear..As I turned my head, I saw the bf appearing there..I got shocked man..real shocked..haha..this time, we celebrated our birthday together with my family..hahha..After that, he took me to I-City..the first time I stepped there..hahha..we had a chit chat session and about 11pm..I safely reached home^^ Thanks bf..You always make my day...Hugs...

e. Internship

~The day after my birthday was my internship..Was loaded with works and tasks although it was my first day..COuldnt get myself some space of freedom..FIrst week of internship, was kind of frustrated..But, as the second week approached, I started to adapt to the lifestyle of a working lady^^ Precisely..A PUBLIC RELATION!! hahahah...

SO, this is what I have done in August..and now, I have 14 weeks to go..as an intern who works in Damansara whereby I have to wake up at 5 plus in the morning, start my journey at 6 plus and reach my working place at 7 plus eventhough my working time starts at 9am...Coming back time from my working place, I have to trap in jam and reach home about 7 plus..and sometimes, 8pm..it depends on da flow..

ANyway, I am absolutely free during my weekends.^^ hahaa..feel free to keep me update for the Intians ^^

Hugs and with love,

SHirley^^

Things never be the same again.

2010-08-14T22:12:00.002+08:00

Sometimes, things just seem not right as how we want it to be..It does not go as smooth as how we want it to be. We are living in the society and there is at times, we are always bind with responsibilities and duties. That is the norm and people have to accept. How can we isolate ourselves from people around us?? Different people are giving us different expectation and challenges..

Many at times, there is hardly people who could understand us.. There is reason behind in everything that happens and sometimes, it is just so hard to explain..I am seriously doomed at times on how it is..People misunderstanding us and this is how it is. Well, what I could said is I really have no comment. What I am doing right now, at this moment is for the sake of the future and for the benefits of everyone..Regardless people get to know or not, I seriously have no comment. Mouth is owned by others and they have the right to say whatever things they want..Again, I have the sense that my history would repeat again..

*cross finger that it wont happen*

I'm really mentally weak this time..Real weak..Challenges coming days after days..Works are all piling up eventhough I'm free from exam..I seriously couldnt care much on how others think and say about it..Because what I know is I have done what I can..I might be wrong in some place and I apologize..whether how people perceive and all, its all up to them..because for the God's sake, you guys know better than I do on the real WHO AM I...Anyhow, there is always sunshine the next day..

This is just a short form of my feelings.. There isnt post to anyone...anyhow, I will still stay positive and POSITIVE cause time will heal a person even me^^..Thanks to my family for supporting me always especially during my hard time..Thanks for being there with me...I just miss you guys much..At least, when Im wrong, you guys still stay beside me, never even doubt me nor question me, rush me and all..For the Family love that I perceive, I am proud to have you guys as one..Really proud and glad..Love you lots..muacks..

Best regards,

SHirley Teo

Back to the place whom I love to hang out

2010-08-01T15:35:00.002+08:00

Its been ages since I stepped in St John Ambulance Headquarter. Its about two years d and today, was the time where I stepped back to that place. The place whereby I love to hang out the most when I was in high school, the place where I spent the most time in especially weekend, the place where I devoted myself for events, the place where I have loads of friends from different schools, the place where there is abundant of laughter and joy and loads more. This is what I have experienced when I was in St John.

However, once I progress with my life in University, the way I perceive things is different.. From the place where I love the most, it turns to the place where I am afraid the most..Gossiping and politics case are highly active in that place. I was curious in the sense that, from a first aid institution, it turns to a politics arena. People started to back stab one another although they are close friends, love circle all around the people and sooner, I felt that people have changed. They join St John, not because their passion but because of the people there. People telling me this and that, and I just got real fed up at times..Even, the one who stays in Nilai most of the time was being commented too..

And today, I was back to St John..All thank to my sister, Elaine for asking me to come back. Or else, Ill be in INTI and enjoying my 30 hours famine with my beloved friends...Indeed, Yong Kooi was the one who kept followed up with them and asked me to help them out for the Charity Run..He was so dedicated and it really impressed me.Thats why I didnt want to turn him down and I agreed to help him..Yong Kooi, thank you so much and really admire your passion in doing things.

In fact, I was supposed to be there by 5am..Can you imagine that?? For the past few days, I deprived of sleep and even back to my home, I still got to wake up early..Anyhow, cut short for that..yea, I went..and my feelings towards St John is no longer burning like how I used to..Its just so dull..I have no idea why actually..Friends around me right, I just felt so strange. If I met them outside the HQ, I can Hi and Bye with them. But with the setting in HQ, I felt that everyone here is full with motives man..I do not know why ..perhaps, I think so much...hahaha....I love and enjoy chatting with Hee Hean ( a lot)...and I love to perform the tasks together with Hee Hean, Hui Lian and Li Lian...hahaha...nice working and chat with you guys..and LILIAN, welcome to INTI k..hahaha^^This made my day..hahaha...

To tell the truth, I do not mind helping out in St John events if they asked me too..But, my passion in St John is no longer there. The passion there has been ruined..and right now, my passion is just all about LEO Club...Perhaps, in near future, my passion would be in working or helping my future partner out...hahahah...

Anyhow, thank you so much for my friends whom I hang out today (Hee Hean, Hui Lian, Say Yen and Li Lian) for much cooperation..hehe..nice chatting, nice moment to spend with, and hope all your dreams come true and happy go lucky..^^

ps: I try not to think much ya

Best regards,

SHirley

^-^

2010-07-27T13:34:00.002+08:00

Throughout my one term as a President, I have learn a lot of things:-

a.Never neglect your loved ones even though you are busy.
b.Always observe and observe on people around you.
c.When you are down, never expect people to come to you and help you. Only your loved ones would do so.
d. Dun always engage to high expectations because high expectation would lead to high disappointment.
e.Only people who are in same position with you would able to see and feel how you go through your life.
f. Be patience as people would always listen to others and misjudge you.
g. Ignore what people say so long you know that you have done your responsibilities.
h.Appreciate the one that really helps you.
i.Always engage to the high emotional quotient (EQ)
j.Time management is vital.
k.Never give yourself a reason for unable to perform in other task
(such as studies)
l.Always believe in yourself.
m.Supportive committees are the step to success.
n. Different people would have different characters.
o.BE STRONG whenever bad things come to you (tease, backstab)
p.Happy moment is always with the committees who are genuine and true to you.
q.Never neglect your classmates.
r.Always prepare that things would happen last minute.
s.Sacrificing is vital to ensure the success of the task that you do.
t.Always appreciate what you people have done to you.
u.Always think first before agreeing with what others say.
v.Love yourself

And now, is the time for me to bid goodbye to all my memories and allow the memories to stay in my mind..Hereby, Tin Chew, thanks for bringing me into LEO and encourage me for the President position by giving me some light during the Children Camp 5..Thanks to Er Sin Yin for all the support and motivation..your care and words meant a lot..Thanks to Raymond for being such an understanding person and always be with me during my ups and downs moment..Thanks to Zhu Kor for all the endless help, support and care...Thanks to Kay Pau for being my supportive partner and work together with me to ensure the success of the club..Thanks to Shugie for not rejecting me when I need some help...Thanks to Steffi for always offering me to her house and chit chat with me...Thanks to my angel (Wai Kit) for secretly helping me behind...*remember what you promise*...Thanks to Arthur for the help during my term..and thanks to all my committees for all the support, contribution, encouragement, outings, dinners,suppers, and lots more..

Thanks to Mun Mun, Wendy, Melinder and Shangari for being a supportive working partners, Thanks to Adam, Dodo, Eng Hong and Jackson for sharing with me most of the things, Thanks to Moi for being a really helpful gal and a caring person, Thanks to Alvin, Irene, Phriya, Mern Jie for becoming the entertainer and the "heroes" for the day (like publicity)..and lastly, my human-Biji...Thanks for always creating the smile in Leo CLub..

Thank to God for giving me this opportunity and not to forget, Daniel Cheng...thanks for your words man..I can still remember until now...^^

A Walk to remember!!!!
Best regards,
Shirley

ps: Thanks dear for all this things...Thanks for the patience and understanding^^

NAH!!!AMbEK KAU!!!

2010-07-19T23:46:00.003+08:00

NAH!! AMBEK KAU!!!!!

BEST CAMP
BEST EVENT REVIEW
BEST EDUCATIONAL EVENT
BEST SOCIAL CLUB

AND

BEST CLUB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

With all the titik peluh, kerja yang susah payah, sleepless night, running up and downs like a monkey, settling stuff with various party, FINALLY, all this worth all when 14th INTIMA LEO CLUB is being announced the BEST CLUB!!!!!!!!!!

I did it!!! Although I am just 19 years old and being A PRESIDENT of a club, I did it....hahaha^^
Nothing is impossible in this world~~~ Of course, Thanks to my LEO COMMITTEES for supporting me always and make my dream come true....You guys rocks to the max man..!!!
Love you guys more than anyone else....Hugs....

Prove it if you have it...

Germany VS Spain

2010-07-08T13:00:00.004+08:00

Throughout my 19 years, this is the first time I purposely woke up and watched football with my Leo Babies...First time..No doubt to say, I do not watch football and its late at nite..Most of the time, I will ffk..but somehow, yesterday..to my surprise..I did wake up and walked all the way to cafeteria at 2.15am...Once I reached there, there were lots of people..Its full man..Even before the match began, everyone started to oo-ing here and there...

Can you see the number of people in cafeteria?? Overcrowded...

I love the atmosphere actually...haha..My classmates were there too..and its just so nice to be with them..For Leos, we even tapao, just to watch the match..Eventhough I had 8am class and 2 assignments due today, still I went for it..haha...I thought that I would be there for like half an hour only but somehow, time passed so fast till I didnt realise that it was 4.15am when I looked at my phone...I supported Germany but somehow, lady luck wasnt at their side..They LOST to SPAIN..darn it !!!!!

Even gals like us did join this..watching football..^^

Honestly speaking, I am not a football fan..For the first half an hour there I guess, I started to feel bored because no one goal..So, my mind wondered here and there..I was thinking that " Isn't it ridiculous for 22 people (I guess) to chase for a single ball?" I started to analyze their strategy mentally and I found out that Spain had a very good defense strategy. Germany hardly had the chance to attack them...Somehow, Germany attack defense wasn't that good after all.. (Between, this is based on my observation. I do not know much but this is what I spotted yesterday)...Germany played badly yesterday..

Look at the people...hahaha..eyes at the screen only^^

Furthermore, I heard people talking about bookies and octopus...At that time, I stared blindly at the players and wondered "what would they feel if people are gambling over them?" They are like the pawns for the chess and the gamblers are like the kings and queens..The pawns have to attack and provide fame to the kings..If anything goes wrong, the pawns are the one who experience it..For example, injuries..The gamblers would not injure at all as they do not play on the field..well, again..just a thought of my mind..

All were waiting for them to goal...pay much concentration in watching football^^

Pretty much, although a not a football fan, still I love the atmosphere yesterday whereby people tend to be so "kan jiong" when the ball nearly reached to the goal post..Some even hopped to laughter when Spain entered a ball..I just love to see the atmosphere and the people there..They are the one who brought the light to this WORLD FIFA CUP...I kind of salute them whereby they could sacrifice their sleep, just because of this match..hehe..You guys rocks man..!!! really open my eyes towards Intian students...PASSIONATE IN DOING THINGS THEY LIKE THAT IS FOOTBALL!!!!!!! hahaha

The "Efficiency" of Malaysia people

2010-07-04T20:07:00.007+08:00

Weekend with my family was always fun..FUN FUN FUN!!!!!.. Its Sunday and my family had Bat Kut Teh...We chatted for hours and hours till we have forgotten that it was nearly 12pm..Off we quickly headed to Klang Parade to get my contact lens and since my brother mood was pretty good, he offered to buy some biscuits and snacks for my brother and sister.

There was this digestive biscuits which stated there RM 4.99...and no doubt to say, its cheap..So, my brother grabbed two packets of it and headed to the cashier..It stated RM 6.39 which was a total expensive..So, we headed to the customer service..At the same time, being the mischievous sister, I went to the biscuit department and captured the bar code of the price..Then, the Teo's family headed to the respective department...

The biscuits and the price that my brother bought

OO MINE GOSH!!! Malaysian people..they were damn damn slow and they just kept saying "Tunggu! Tunggu! Tunggu!" All of us were waiting there patiently..Out of nowhere, there came this customer and complained that she bought 3 packs of expired nuggets..The conversation was damn funny and all of us burst into laughter...Then again, a Chinese lady came and approached that the bought item was somehow spoil...

The Malay lady who purchased 3 packs of expired nuggets and the Chinese lady

At the mean time, I was capturing some picture to see how "efficient" the hypermarket worked..Indeed, the Chinese lady was pretty angry and kind of raised her tone to the employees..Yet,they do not bother her..Haiz..kesiannya...In fact, my dad was kind of mad with my brother cause he was rushing for his time..Thanks God, the scenario really made us burst into laughter...We burst into laughter and all of us sang, chat in a mini car, under the rain...Everyone was just smiling all day long..^^

The unattended customer service and the ignorant lady on complaints

Love my brother (James), Love my younger brother (Jacky) and lastly, love my beloved sister (Elaine)...I can lost everything but not you all..coz you guys are the number 1 now in my heart..Always and always..haha...and now, I miss you guys loads...Although I just reach Inti, I wish I could go back to Klang and have plenty of time with you all...Hug you guys lots..^^

Signing off,
Suat Li

Life of a leader^^

2010-07-01T08:10:00.002+08:00

People just seems to be don't understand the role of a leader. People always wanted something best from you when you are at some top position regardless any events that you are engaged to or any club that you are attached to. I believe many leaders do face the same thing also. That's why I could proudly say that ""Only leaders can understand the other leaders. This is totally true and no doubt to say, words by Daniel Cheng is always remained in my head. He stated this to me and could assured me that life would not be as smooth as what we think because even leaders do differ at certain point in life.

I faced this multiple of times. Its countless. No doubt to say, I faced it nearly every single days. Even in Children Camp 6. People were just not in your shoes and tend to comment here and there as if they knew a lot of things. Coming to it, if you think that being a leader is just like munching a food in your mouth, feel free to take up this post. Do not push the responsibilities to others if you can't and comment much if you know nothing. Not only that, this people tend to brainwash others which is a ??>....anyhow, this couldn't blame them because others are the one who allow them to be brainwashed.

Again, people told me that yesterday and this time, I just kept my mouth shut. I guess I was tired of explaining to people and how nice if they could just understand at least 1%?? I am not complaining here but I am actually appreciating all this. With them, I realize that leaders are always being accused and blamed..Being a leader, you tend to feel lonely at times..Being leader, people would always judge your action and being a leader, you have to be professional to handle your emotions especially..And Im glad to say that I have controlled and managed my emotions well but still a place to improve. Neither did i say leaders never make mistakes..but still, if you do not know much, please gentle ask the respective person and clarify with them rather than stating something from what you see at the surface.

Just giving an instance. During CC6, I was the camp commandant. People were telling me that I was fierce..and i got to agree with that..I was pretty strict..still,I was trying to be nice during the camp but the children were damn hyper active and the committees were laid back..I have to perform my responsibilities, thinking that I was the advisor and VOC for CC6 and at the same time, a president for my club..Some did comment that I did a pretty well job but some were just not understand at all..They told me that I shouldnt be fierce during the camp...At that time, my mind just wondered and asked "Did I show papaya face throughout the camp? Answer is no"..I still played around but I was just pretty firm with what I was doing..If you were at my shoes that time, I bet that you could not smile like what I smiled during CC6 and you would definitely let off your temper..This, I could bet with it..

However, working with Tin CHew was fun..We spotted lots of flaws during the camp and seek for improvements from time to time..Still, it was the same. Hence, we got to handle the lunch session on the last day because we wanted to show to the committees on how you all supposed to work together and not holding firm on the flaws to it. We are all here to train and guide you guys..Still, people misunderstood..Even Arthur came to me and said that "Camp commandant have to be strict. You all have to control the discipline in the camp. Children have to be scared of someone and this is none other than Camp commandant"..

Pretty much, I did agree with what he said..again, Malaysian people always think on their point of view and this, I could not deny it..Due to this, I have a bad sore throat and did anyone concern about that or just asked how it is???..Answer is NO!!! That's why when Kpau said that as you move a step further, you tend to be lonely..and this time, I agree..The one who is going along with you will still be your closed and loved ones. Therefore, appreciating them is definitely a must and still, people tend to tease you if you are being slightly concern towards them..

Well, what a life!!!...I still thanks to God for allowing me to see, expose and experience all this because this eventually develops me to be a better person in the future. I do not need their sympathy but I just wish that they could look at the world at a wider perspective..Its time for them to grow up..

Again, I would stress that being a leader is fun..Even though there is lots of ups and downs, still I want to be a leader in the future..This is because:-
a. Being a leader makes me who I am,
b.Being a leader challenges my mind whereby if things go wrong last minute, it really triggers your brain to think the best solution in a short time,
c.Being a leader, I really train up to be much patience and develop high EQ..
d. Being a leader, I have enjoyed the fullest things in life
e. Being a leader, I learn to love and appreciate every single things in life..
f. Being a leader, my soft skills improve.
g. Being a leader, I learn to see the world in different perspectives.
h. Being a leader, I have widen up my network..
and the list continues and continues....

Thanks God for everything I have in my life...
and Thanks for allowing me to search for my dream^^
Thanks..

Best regards,
Shirley

dedicated to bf^^

2010-06-23T19:00:00.002+08:00

Its a SURPRISE!!! Although its nothing special, but to me, its something very special...I love the bf lots..he is fantastic...today was my award presentation and he couldnt make it..Yet, his love reached to me..He passed it to my brother a bouquet of roses and oo Mine god!!!! Only my brother know how was my expression just now..I was damn damn happy and surprise to receive this flowers..Lots of questions popped around my head but my mouth cant stop smiling..I called the bf immediately and expressed my gratitude to him..He is rocks man..he always made my day by giving me tons of surprise..haha..^^

Indeed, I really thank to God for allowing him to stay by my side..No doubt to say, we have gone thru lots of ups and downs during the past few months and arguments about unnecessary stuff which made the other party sad...still, the power of love is still burning..we have not met for days as we were busy with our own tasks and he was such a loving guy..He didnt complaint on me for not spending time with him but he is always supporting me and encouraging me to be strong in the stuff that Im handling now especially my studies and CLUb events...although we hardly message, still we know that we are missing one another...

and this has been proven today..haha..Im very happy...its just a award presentation and he really made my day...thanks you so much for being one for me..thanks you so much for not bragging me..thanks you so much for trusting me all this while..thanks you so much for the love you poured..thanks you so much for every single things that you have done...and I would like to say to you that......

Yes,you are the one...I love you^^

ps: no worries..its the first time i wrote about my feelings in relationship..I just wanted to share out my feelings here..hehe..^^ no worries..ill still get back to track and devoted to my responsibilities..I wont be carried away due to bf...becoz from the start, the bf knows that Im an extroverted person who accept the responsibilities well...I might be a bad gf but I ll try to be a good leader..^^ to bf, and ill try to be a good gf too^^

Best regards
Shirley Teo Suat Li

the challenges of suat li

2010-06-07T16:25:00.002+08:00

Just beginning of the semester, I'm pretty packed with loads of things..Real much...and starting from this semester, I have started to neglect the importance of food..I started to skip my meals often, and always wishing to come back to my beloved room after my class..I have not went out with my classmates for ages and I totally missed my entertainment world..I have just been occupied with loads of things but at the same time, I did gain some valuable things..

I started to understand the bf better, experience all the downs which make my life miserable, many things which eventually become the obstacles for me,and at the same time, I have to tell myself that I can go through all this. Although it's tough at certain moments, yet I have no choice..but have to go through it..I have to...Right now, I could just skip my meals for the work that Im assigned too..Its not healthy yet ...I try to my best to manage my eating habit now..haha

At the same time, I tend to avoid myself actually...by sleeping..haha..Indeed, I even reached to a point whereby Im afraid to sit in front of laptop because lots of works have to be done..I miss my family too..Because they are always with me no matter what..ALthough they couldnt help me much, their love meant a lot to me..I enjoyed talking with my parents and siblings eventhough I know that I couldnt afford to waste my time..But at least, its a way for me to throw myself out...I just love my family for accepting who am I, never complaint eventhough I hardly go back home, always with me and asking me to take care of myself...In fact, this is what I need the most for my critical stage..that is UNDERSTANDING AND LOVE...

This will pass through..and Tin Chew, thanks for being my listener, your advice and your ideas for my project..I guess I would know what to do now..Thanks...^^
No worries...Suat Li will go on in her life..Never give up and thanks for all the problems and challenges..^^

Best regards,
Shirley

Photoshop

2010-06-02T15:12:00.002+08:00

haha...Well, I know its a bit fake..but somehow, do you think that this can be a postcard???
Btw, this is the edited picture by using photoshop..
Im still learning..so feel free to comment ya..
hahhaha...

Best regards,
Shirley

specially dedicated to SOMEONE^^

2010-05-25T22:22:00.002+08:00

Long enough to say that I have not update my blog and Im back...
However, this post is specially dedicated to someone and guess who is that??

Days after days, months after months,
You are there with me most of the time,
Although you are not physically there, yet your heart is there with me
You are there when I need you the most,
You are there when I need support and courage,
You are just everywhere..
Chocolates were there to melt my heart,
Ice cream was there to allow me to taste the "sweet"ness
The force-ment allows me to take care of my beloved toes
The herbal tea was there to cure my throat..
The love that you pour have I really appreciated..

Without you, I never know the meaning of love,
Without you, I have no idea on how a gf should be,
Without you, I have never experienced the ups and downs.
But with you,
I learn to miss every single moments we spend
as if it is our last time we are breathing in the world.
I learn to be much understanding towards people,
I am much a happie person now,
as I know,
no matter what I face in my life,
I have someone who walks with me all day long,
without knowing the word of "tired" and "exhaustion"
All this is due to the power of LOVE..

Thanks you so much dear
for all the created moments,
for everything that you have done,
for the faith that you have put in,
for all the happiness and sadness..
ps: Love you lots..^^

haha..never would I know that I would write my feelings out in the blog..haha.i mean my personal life here...but somehow, I dunno where can I write it..so, i chose to write it here..I just know that I want to express my this feelings out..and I dunno whether is he going to read it but somehow if he does, just wanna let him know that no matter what happens, Ill be walking with him..Right now, he is busy with his stuff and what could I do is to wish him all the best in doing the work, accomplish it and be happie with it..So long, he knows that there is someone here with him, always..haha..^^..Good luck^^

best regards,
anonymous^^

Indescribable feelings

2010-05-18T20:49:00.003+08:00

Walking along the street

All by myself

is an indescribable feelings...

Somehow, I feel Inti is so nice

at night with lights everywhere,

fill with serenity, peace

that allows us to listen to our inner heart..

Walking along the street,

Enjoying talking with yourself,

Tuning on "Solo" song in your mind,

Walk as if you rule the road,

Smile to everyone even though you do not know them,

Let the harmony and peaceful air to fill the lungs,

and you would realize that

LIFE IS JUST SO SIMPLE

cheers,

SHirley Teo

Kelantan trip (Redang Island, Perhentian Island, Lang Tengah Island)

2010-05-08T11:37:00.013+08:00

January semester break was FABulous. I went to Kelantan with my babes for nearly a week. 3 days in Kelantan and 3 days in the island. Its too much and I'm serious about it. I love Kelantan. I love it lots..First of all, a token of appreciation to Moi and her family..Her parents were so great to provide us 100% hospitality..From the start where we reached the Kota Bahru airport, they never failed to entertain us although the group number of us was large..

Moments there were fabulous and fantastic..I love hanging around with them..We spent countless time together, chatted together, eat together and lots more..We even shared some secret together and all of us were like family..Helping one another without fail, enjoyed the beauty of the nature, and smelling the serene of the island..thats worth all..

Indeed, I gain lots of experience and learnt a lot of things throughout my stay in Kelantan and Redang Island..The memories and the moments we went through was hardly to describe in words..Only experience and exposure would eventually know what my feeling is and the things I went through..However, to gain something, definitely you have to pay them out. In order to enjoy the beauty of the nature, I "paid" back through my skin color..No doubt to say, I have turned to a black chicken d..Real dark.Even my family got surprise to see me..and I guess that the bf behave in this way too..haha..

However, he is being so so sweet..He never said that Im dark but he still Loves me on who I am..haha..He said that "No matter how dark am I, he Loves me on who I am"..He is being so sweet..Love him lots.

The tomyam fish that we had eaten in Restaurant Cheng Mai on the last night we were in Kelantan. The fish was super duper nice..Its delicious. Indeed, all this were actually Thai Food..

Surprisingly, as I went around the Kota Bahru city, I realized something. No doubt to say, Kelantan area is majority populated by the generation who formed Malaysia. Hence, Jawi words was found everywhere- the road signs, the restaurant and even TESCO hypermarket. TESCO in Klang is only written in English but in Kelantan, Jawi words is there too..The rights of this golden generation is highly protected in that area..Indeed, it is actually a culture shock for me during my stay there. However, it enhances and broaden my knowledge and allows me the opportunity to explore the culture of other states. I just love it..

When you walked round and round, you tend to be tired..Hence, let me present you the four "LADIES"-Moi, Rene, Siang and Li..Indeed, that was the first station we went and all of us were swayed away due to the roaring sun that burnt our skin deeply.. We started to leave from AH Moi house around 10am and we started our trip..To reach a destination, it took nearly an hour. Hence, most of the time, we stayed in the car and AH Bien was the hero for the day..

At times, camwhoring was fun to make you smile even though you are tired. So, ya..this picture was taken in the "Sitting Buddha" temple..Say CHeese..

Lesson to learn: Smile no matter what state you are in

This is the seafood. A type of dishes that was presented in Restaurant Cheng Mai..I found that it was just a so so dish only..Somehow, the guy felt that this dish was fabulous..They kept praising this dish..Guess that, this is what we called-The Guys-...I found it normal only as I don't fancy santan..that's the reason..

Coming to this, I didn't know that Kelantan still use this parking system..Honestly speaking, its the first time I saw this parking payment system even though my friends told me that you can see this in Nilai..I'm sorry to say that I never seen this...A city girl like me whom stays in Klang for 19 years have not come across with this. In Klang, we used the ticket parking system whereby one or two of this are allocated in each area. Somehow, it really opened my mind..I guess that I shall travel more to rural area rather than locking myself in the urban areas.

LOOk at this!!! The way they spelt is different too.. Most of us were get used to the spelling of "mangosteen" for buah manggis..but in Kelantan, it was spelt asMANGOSTYN..the spelling was different although pronounciation was the same..It surprised me...I found this board in one of the Ayam Percik Restaurant..

This....One word...NICE!!!..Again, thanks to Moi's parents..As we reached the Kelantan on Thursday, we had BBQ session. It's the first record whereby I BBQ-ed at 12am..We were tired but looking at the newly fresh made LALA, its just worth all..when we put the "LALA" on the burning charcoal, automatically, the LALA would opened up and indicated that its cooked. It means that we could eat them up..There was little water in each "LALA" and its damn salty..Yet, its nice..NICE!!!NICE!!!!

The upcoming dish that I wanted to present in Restaurant Chiang Mai is Kerabu. I didnt want to put all this pictures together because it gonna make your saliva to drop out..haha..so, let me present the third dish then..Kerabu..Special enough that represent the real Thai Identity and its culture...

PORK LEGS!!!!! Arthur ManFred!!! It's your favourite..Too bad to say that you can't have it with us..We ate it till our stomach bloated.The one who really enjoyed eating it was my KOR..haha..The skin was damn crispy..Chewed this PORK Legs in our mouth where the oils was spurted out once our teeth met each other was an amazing moment..Its so nice and this is the first time I encountered such a delicious meal...Muacks..haha..Good try for Pork Lovers..

This was the place where we stayed in..PASIR PUTEH...Look at the spelling..Again, it is different from Selangor..We spelt PUTIH instead of PUTEH...This shows the difference man...

ps: I'll be comparing between Kelantan and Selangor as I live in Klang..Hence, I know better in Klang compared to other areas.

Everyday without fail, we had to travel for nearly an hour to reach the town-KOTA Bahru.. Look at the signboard. 30KM...a long journey and pretty much, all of us had to squeezed in the car..Somehow, the car that I attempted to were AH Bien, SIang, Kor, Rene and I..At times, Pris would join us...Even though Pris joined us, it did not give us any big impact..She is too small size where we hardly feel the space that she took..haha...

Talking about in the car..We had an unforgettable moments there..I guess the people who attended Moi's car couldnt experience what we had experience..Its not a nice experience yet it made our day..We laughed till our stomach burst and started to tear..haha...Let me share this out and I believe that its not a harm to share this..

AH Bien was our so called driver..Being the hero of the day, only his windscreen could function..The rest were failed to do so...Indeed, one thing that I learnt was Ah Bien had this "special behavior" where the guys had knew it before..Gals like us could only experience it occasionally..This time, his "Special behavior" had attacked him again..IN CAR...We suffocated yet at the same time, we couldnt do much...He was busy laughing and entertaining his own emotions while later on, Rene demanded him to wind down the window...Pris was the main victim as she sat directly behind Ah Bien..hahah...It attacked him not once but several .and everytime his "Special Behavior" attacked, all of us would bust into laughter..hahaha

THEY STILL USED MANUAL SYSTEM!!!! Theory of Scientific Management by Frederick Taylor came into this scenario. They used man power and not ticketing system..The car had to stop and got the entrance ticket by the person before proceed. Indeed, I believe that they still believe in man power and classical approaches whereby there is only one best way in doing a certain task..That applied in Kota Bahru Mall where they believe that man power is the besttt...Hence, proper selection of workers and training are very important to ensure the smoothness of the work..haha..Well, I am just lebih-ing now..haha...

Anyhow, it really surprised me though..I thought that their city would be somehow like Jusco in Klang..Yet, its totally different from what I perceived..Indeed, NEW EXPERIENCE though^^

The whole gang who came to visit Moi's place and the photographer for the day was none other than our MR Lim Yi JUn(kor)..haha..pity him..he couldnt be in the pictures...This picture was taken in lift on our last night in Kelantan...Can u spot Jackson???haha..He was so cute to stay beside Biji...haha...LEt's crop the picture and what it would be..haha...well, i Guess that I shouldnt reveal it now as picture in Facebook has tell the story out..haha..Biji, thanks me ya..

Let me welcome you the KB Mall...haha..this picture is actually to irritate my kor..He was so reluctant and I forced him to take picture for me..haha..I know that I'm dominant..but somehow, he had to...coz I'm his sister..wahahah...

After long story, let me present you another dish..Its called "O-Jian"...haha..I found nothing special about it..Because I prefer O-Jian to be cooked with corn starch rather than with eggs..Hence, I found nothing special about it..Somehow, the guys loved this so much..well, this is what we called Guys..haha..Guys love everything they encountered especially food.

ps: this note is for the guys who joined us ^^

Kangkung...Nice..Although I don't really like to eat vegetables, somehow I have to give credit to this dish..This vegetable was just awesome..Indeed, among all the dishes that were presented in our table, yet the first dish to finish isKANGKUNG..hahah..people just love kangkung so much...Reminder--it is kangkung vegetable ya..and not KANGKANG!!! Not like the NAsi KangKAng where we encountered..haha...

SHirley and Chien Bien..haha...He is leaving us soon...He would be going to US to further his studies in August and wish him loads of lucks and blessings...

Pris and Shirley...As we reached our chalet after snorkeling, everyone rushed to bath...Unlike Pris and I who took our sweet time to play around and wander around the place as that was our last day to enjoy it before we bid a goodbye to Perhentian Island..Of course, we were accompanied by Kor who turned up to become our photographer..haha...The water was so chilling and cooling...Lying down on the sand while letting the water to soak us was fantastic..NICE!!! and this is how I get my new blackie skin..hahah....still, I had no regret in it..just that I would fuss once in a while..hahaha...

Shirley and the sexy Pris..haha..^^...at the beach..

Chien Bien, Moi, SHirley and Ah Bien

This was taken in Redang Island...We went to the turtle area and we touched them..The turtle that four of us touched was actually a real preserved turtle..Its damn fragile and I thought that it was a fake turtle..I nearly plucked its legs off..ahaha..

Look at THIS!!!! If the bf saw this, I guess that he would never ever want to kiss me again....haha..My mouth was polluted by a little, cute baby turtle..hehe...This baby turtle was kind of obedient actually..It did not move around when I "demanded" him to stay..But later on, it loved to move around on my hand ..haha..Indeed, it kissed my cheek too..However, it bit me ...Thanks God, its not that pain after all..haha..Love you baby turtle^^ Mummy would come back to see you when mummy is free k..^^muacks..

This is Redang Island...Jumping and hopping on the fine, white sand under the scorching sun was a hard task to do..But once you do it, you tend to want more and more..You smell freedom..You feel the happiness..You taste the excitement..You see the laughing wind...And thats all worthwhile to being sunburn in this island..haha...

Lazy to wander around in Redang Island..So, all of us sat and had a small chit chat session...Eyes hardly made it way yet a gentle smile made its day..Again, credit to our beloved photographer that is my brother for willing to take our picture under the hot sun..In fact, a pity to him where he had turned to roasted chicken..He was totally sun burn and his face was "Damaged"...It turned to a tomato face and skin started to peel off..Pity him..haha..Somehow, I just couldnt stop laughing when I see him because of his red nose..that looked like a clown..haha...OOps..Sorry kor..haha...

Walking along the beach in the morning was a MUST to do thing when you are in an island...Three gals never failed to do so..and we allowed the wind to sway our mind and released our tension away...^^

Tiring day must always filled with delicious food and nice atmosphere...Say"YAM SENG" to the food and all turned to hungry ghost...hahah...Photographer for the day was Kor again..and ya..couldnt see him in this picture...hahah..

OOps..I have talking a lot about food and trip...and i never touch on who is the lucky person who joined this trip..haha..Look at the ass..Can you spot who are they.??

haha..The Butt 1 is a person who suddenly fall into the paparazzi news who dared to behave so openly in a public area..The Butt 2 is the one who worked well with person 1 and get into the rumours..Butt 3 is the one who had been frighten by person 10 and always cover that special area. Butt 4 is the one who has "Special Behavior" that allow the whole world to quake..Butt 5 is the one who cant live without food..He is the first one to attempt to the food and tried all the food out..Butt 6 is the person who you know and I know..Butt 7 is the most mischievous one who always made everyone bust into laughter with his lame jokes especially the nights in Perhentian Island..Butt 8 is the youngest in the group and she is known the Sleepy gal..She was the earliest to fall into her sweet dream always..Butt 9 is the one who can't live without sea..Quoted by YiJun-"She is Being cursed to fall in love to her marine life"..And lastly, butt 10 is the one who became the victim by the guys..She is the main attraction of the day where the guys loved to hand around with her..

BEfore snorkeling, we had a training session on how to use the mask..haha..The water was super clear and that's what we called the Redang Island..Unlike Klang..haha..What if I asked you guys to snorkel in Klang river?? Would you?? haha..

*A break after reading the story..Have a Kit Kat session*...hahaha,...

Departing to the respective place for snorkelling..woohOO!!!..haha..Fun! Fun! FUn !..Speedboat-Nice..haha..I remembered this..Look at the conversation below-I re-edit the words that have been spoken by them-Its between Kor and Rene..

Rene: We are taking the ferry to Perhentian Island

Kor: Nope...We are going by Speedboat ...

Rene: NAh!!..We have to take ferry...Its called ferry la..not speedboat...

(once we sat in the speedboat,)

Kor: So, you are calling this as ferry??..Its speedboat la..

Rene: Nope..its called ferry...Its Ferry..haha

Rene insisted that it was ferry although she knew that its wrong..She just wanna irritate Kor only..haha...During the journey to our island, much funny scenario took place...Stating that Indonesia was actually the other side of the island and Pris believed..hahah..^^Moi was a victim too..Guys were pranking him that "if we reached the other side of the sea, we would die"..haha..its just so much of funny conversation that took place..No doubt to say, the 6 days trip in Kelantan was always filled with laughter..No anger, no sadness..but LAUGHTER!!!

Welcome Pantai Cahaya Bulan!!!..haha...The second day in Kelantan..haha..nothing much to say..as at that time, my stomach was aching..So, I sat quietly and enjoyed the beauty of the kites..

"Sitting Buddha" temple..haha...Incredible..haha..one of the places that we had visited..^^indeed, thanks to Moi's friends who never failed to entertain us and brought us around too..Yi Nee and Issac, thanks u so much..haha..

Hot and sweating day is always fun to accompany by an ice cream..haha...making me to look back at my past where I love to buy ice cream during my primary school..haha...

"Sleeping Buddha" temple...I realized that the statue in Kelantan temple was enormous..Its huge and large..and that is the main attraction for the tourists to pay a visit in this special places while taking lots of beautiful pictures..

Say Cheese..!!! haha..just to camwhore around when I was bored...

In KB Mall..SHirley, pRis, Wei Kean and Rene..LAst night in Kelantan ...haha...its actually a form of our exercise to let the food to digest..We were super full once we ate in Restaurant Cheng Mai...haha..Good form of exercise though..

Let's play some games..What comes across your mind when you see this picture?? Is this a sun or a moon?? Guess, Guess and guess..!!!hahaha....thinking about it..Perhentian Island was indeed a unique place..the moon appeared at 10.++pm...and the moon was like the one that I was "touching" in the picture..Look like a sun rite..Its damn nice...When I looked at it, the thing that came across my mind was the Lovely Bones whereby Susie was in heaven and experienced it..haha..I had no idea why..but this is what I encountered..^^

Eating LALA in Moi's house..Her mum was a good chef..She cooked delicious food although the ingredient was simple..Nice and delicious..Within 10 mins, we nearly finished all the LALAs and pity Jun..He could only get to eat around 5 LALAs while the rest was eaten by us..haha...sorry Kor..it was too delicious and we couldnt stop ourselves from eating it..haha...

Lastly, presenting to you guys the last dish that we ate in Restaurant Cheng Mai..It was the special dish for the day where the chicken was actually cooked with alcoholic drink..Its the most suitable food for those who love alcohol drinks..However, I just found it so-so only for the taste of the dish as I do not really like the alcoholic taste..But the presentation of the food won my heart^^

Before everything ends, before we were back to Inti University College, we took the last picture in the Kota Bahru airport...Bid a goodbye to Kelantan and I promise I'll be back there again...

Thanks to Ah Moi and her family for the best hospitality that you guys provided..

Thanks to Ah Moi's friends for never failing to entertain and bring us around the Kelantan places till late night..

Thanks to my kor for guiding me throughout the snorkeling session while in Perhentian Island..

Thanks to Rene for helping me during the snorkeling session too..

Thanks to Cai for creating laughter of the day..

Thanks to AH Bien for sharing everything that you have and known..

Thanks to Biji for being such a concern and caring gal...

Thanks to Siang for willing to have a deep,serious discussion and share lots of things with me..

Thanks to Pris for allowing me to become a small,little gal while both of us were playing around at the beach...

Thanks to Jackson for not forcing me to wear Bikini..haha..joking..Thanks to him for being such a super nice guy whom always helped me...

and Lastly, thanks to Shirley Teo for not letting this opportunity to let go and had a fabulous moments with her beloved babes..

hahaha...hehehe...

Not to forget, thanks to the bf for being so understanding and do not stop me from going to Kelantan although we hardly met each others..Besides that, thanks to the bf for accepting me on who I am now..haha..who has turned to a roasted chicken..ahaha..Love u lots..^^

Indeed, I have wrote a real long story..and I hope that you guys would not be bored of it..For more pictures, please view my profile in Facebook or you can simply visit YiJun's profile..haha

Best regards,

SHirley Teo Aka Suat lI

the gal who enjoyed herself during her Kelantan trip^^

Its P.R.O.V.E.N

2010-04-29T15:05:00.002+08:00

I am not here to boast nor trying to be ego. And of course, I am not here to tease anyone of you. Indeed, I just want to share some of the journey that I have gone through. No doubt to say, yesterday night was not a nice night for me whereby the results is released. Sharp 12am on the 29th April 2010, the results for my Year 1-Semester 3 would be released. And no doubt to say, this was the first time where I was not really confident in myself. Im scared and terrified. I tried to persuade myself that nothing bad would happen and all. I kept consoling myself, still its useless. I even dreamt that I have 2As and 2Bs.

I understand that last semester, it was a real busy semester where my timing was totally upside down. My studies was not done like what I have planned, events were piling up and lots more. Everyday, 8am class was a torture for me but thanks God, I didn't skip any class. Somehow, it was just a "tut" semester. I remembered once where I have Charity Night on Monday and the following day, I had quiz. To tell the truth, I did pretty badly. I was total screwed up for that quiz. Still, I didn't blame the event because I believe the culprit is not the event but its me,myself who has such a poor time management. However, thanks God, I did better in other areas that could helped me to cover back this low marks. Things became worse when lecturers started to tell us that it's not easy to get an A for their subjects. Much efforts needed to put in. I tried my best to allocate some time for my studies despite the busy schedule of my events.

Indeed, throughout the semester too, I began to realise the importance of time. I could handle both my studies and Club events well but not my personal lifestyle..I would say a big sacrifice is needed as human capability has limitation and we have only 24 hours a day. So, I have to sacrifice my time in relationship and no doubt to say, I do appreciate the bf for being so understanding and bear with my busy timetable. He didn't even nag at me but continuously showing concern and giving me support from the back. Can you believe that we only meet up once or twice in a week and thats also for like 2 to 3 hours only?? haha..real pity for him..the words that really touched me that was spoken by the bf was " Its worthwhile to sacrifice our time for relationship so long you put your time in your studies. After all, the purpose of you in the college is to study and not because of me". I love this sentence so much man..Love you lots^^

Anyway, back to the story. Yea..this was what my January semester was likely about. I love and enjoyed it too although I was busy. Because no doubt to say, I Love my LEO Club lots..Although many hassles and conflicts occurred, I still love them on whom they are..They are rocKS to the max man..haha..

Oo ya..So, I didnt check my results although its 12am..I sat in front of my laptop and just doing nothing..Then, the bf texted me and had a chit chat session with him. With his presence, I took up the big step to check my results and surprisingly, I got shocked to see my results. I didn't know whether to be happy or not. But somehow, I was really really happy and delighted. Didn't do I know that I could obtain this results?! It means all the sacrifices were all worthwhile..Im just happy to see it..I called my parents and my brother although its late at night, just to inform them.hahaa..Although I have 2As and 2 weak As, still I have all As..Again, I am not being boastful but I just wanna share this..Its a motivation for all of you out there.

No doubt to say, ITS PROVEN that :-

~Nothing is impossible in this world

~Eventhough you are in a relationship, still it wont affects your studies

(ps: great mutual understanding from both parties)

~Events are not the reason for the poor grades

~Time management is very important to balance things well

~Knowing what is your priority is very important

~Lastly, always have faith and believe in yourself

A President of Leo Club, Year 1 Mass Communication student, being a sister in a family, a daughter for my parents, council member in Inti, being a gf to my beloved bf,advisor for several events, STAR Scholarship holder and the list continues can make her step to this point. So, why not you?? Do not take this post as a negative issue but take it as a positive issue where it could motivate you. Always think that why can others do it and why not we? This is always the question that I have for myself because I believe that everyone is equal. The vary is how much efforts a person put in. Indeed, no one is perfect even I, myself. I am still learning and progressing and developing myself. I would try my best to achieve something better in next semester although it gonna be a tough journey. Still, at least, I willing to give a try. No one knows what would happen in the future but so long we dare to give a try, we definitely can make it to our own personal goals and standards.

Wish you guys all the best!!

Best regards,

Shirley aka Suat Li

The one who is still learning and developing herself^^

The only SHirley

2010-04-28T18:26:00.003+08:00

Boowie!!!!

Thats just the only and one -SHirley Teo Suat Li

p/s: In Port Dickson..

just so not me

2010-04-26T11:51:00.002+08:00

Its been a week since I'm back to my hometown..I wondered what have I done in Klang..Time passes super duper fast and Im going back to Inti soon for my trip..haha...REDANG trip...am really looking forward for it..hahah...

Indeed, I felt that i have neglected my blog for quite some time but somehow, i just do not know what to blog le..Im just weird..haha.and now, im just typing some nonsense here..haha..bear with me ba..haha..

Somehow, I really miss my days in Inti la..Although I was packed with loads of assignments, continuous events, and time seems to be insufficient for me, yet I still love my moments and days there..At least, I feel that Im a college student who always busy and well packed..Unlike now, I feel that Im a rotten children here..I do not know what to do actually..Pretty much, I watched TV, online, helping my mum and its a routine work..and i have finished reading the Leadership Book that I borrowed it from the bf, from last year..Indeed, I didnt have the time to read it for the semester..Thats why..and Now, Im reading "One litre of tears" given by my kor..haha..damn nice..^^

I watched Clash of Titans d with my beloved siblings..and now, i wish to watch the Singapore movie..Again, my bro do not want to watch it as he wants to watch the "IP MAN 2" as it is releasing soon..and sad to say, I couldnt watch them..Ill be in Terengganu by that time..GRh!!!

Whatever la..haha..

well, INTI..Im ready to explore you real soon..Im ready..and again, I do not mind with having a busy schedule..I just love it..haha..cant wait for my time in INti..^^..

ps: I noe Im bragging here and haha..tats so not me to write this post..this is da worst post la, i guess..haha..just do not want my blog to be so dead..haha..no worries,..there will be tons of exciting story coming up soon^^

stay tune!!!

best regards,

the so-no-idea gal on what she has written

New things that I have encounter^^ -I BELIEVE

2010-04-20T11:40:00.005+08:00

I believe...

That just because two people argue

It doesnt mean they dont love each other

and just because they dont argue

it doesnt mean they do love each other.

I believe...

That we dont have to change friends if

we understand that friends change.

I believe..

that no matter how good a friend is,

they're going to hurt you every once in a while

and you must forgive them for that..

I believe..

that true friendship continues to grwo,

even over the longest distance

same goes for true love

I believe....

that you can do something in an instant

that will give you heartache for life...

I believe..

that it's taking me a long time

to become the person I want to be..

I believe..

that you should always leave loved ones with

Loving words.It may be the last time you see them..

I believe..

that you can keep going after you think you can't..

I believe..

we are responsible for what

we do, no matter how we feel..

I believe..

that either you control your attitude or it controls you

I believe ...

that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs

to be done, regardless of the consequences

I believe..

that mu best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time...

I believe..

that sometimes the people you expect to kick when you're down

will be the ones to help you get back up..

I believe ...

that sometimes when Im angry

I have the right to be angry,

but that doesnt give me the right to be cruel...

I believe...

that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had

and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many

birthdays you've celebrated..

I believe ...

that it isnt always enough

to be forgiven by others..

Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself...

I believe...

that no matter how bad your heart is broken

the world doesnt stop your grief..

I believe..

that our background and circumstances

may have influenced who we are

but we are responsible for who we become

I believe..

that you shouldnt be so eager to find

Out a secret..It could change your life forever...

I believe...

two people can look at the exact same

thing and see everything totally different

I believe..

tat your life can be changed in a matter of

hours by people who dont even know you

I believe...

that even when you think you have no ore to give,

when a friend cries out to you

you will find strength to help..

I believe...

that credentials on the wall

do not make you a decent human being.

I believe..

tat the people you care about most in life

are taken from you too soon...

and this is all what I believe...

_____________________________________________________________________

Between, this is some meaningful points where I quoted it..and pretty much, it reflects what a human being suppose to do because the most happiest person is not the one who owns most of the things but the one who knows how to appreciate their life, people and things they encounter...The experience and exposure...So,haha...

I know its a long post but hope that you guys learnt something from it..Besides that, I have something to share about..Last week where I had my final exam..I received an email from Mike Thomas, stating that my blog is being selected to post in his blog and somehow, he published my blog in this website:http://bloginterviewer.com/family/gals-diary-shirley .Voting and ranking is needed so that I could win some prizes..haha..but then, I wasn't really into it la..I do not wish to ask people to vote for it but I just want to share my life-Gal's Diary to everyone..If you like it, you will automatically do so de..This is what I believe..So, Sorry Mike..Im not going to ask people to vote^^..haha..i just want the originality of my blog where people would learnt something throughout the experience and exposure that i had been thru..^^

Have a blast day everyone..

Best regards,

Shirley aka Suat Li

Sot SOt de me!!!

2010-04-19T22:32:00.003+08:00

IM DONE with my exam!!!

and finally, Im back to my home sweet home..^^

hahaha...Love my bed so so much...

blek...hahaha^^...

Love my family so so much..

Love the bf whom is staying alone now...

Love my friends who are enjoying their holidays..

Love my House...

Love my time...

And i JUST love every single things..hahaha...

ps: I dunno what happen to me now but Ill update a more formal post next time..Im just too delighted..hahaha

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2010-04-13T21:16:00.001+08:00

2 more papers to go on Friday...

Now is da break time!!!!...

COMM RESEARCH METHODS and MARKETING,

Im gonna meet you soon!!!!..

Love u lots..MUAcks...

Organizational Comm and Social Psychology...

Im done with you guys...

THanks for giving me such a hectic time

in reading and understand you guys..

THanks for making my head ached..

and thanks for letting me to stay nervous and excited..

and face insomnia....

wahahaha....

GO WOMEN!!!!!!!!

2010-04-09T20:15:00.003+08:00

Women are expected to be more communal and

men are expected to be more agentic

Hence, people expected successful leaders to be more agentic than communal

However, when women become leaders,

they are being evaluated negatively than men..

Whatever they do, seems to be wrong as it contradicts with the social norms.

If they conform to societal expectations on how they suppose to behave (communal),

they are often perceived to have low leadership potential

If they succeed and behave like what leaders should behave,

they are often perceived negatively for not "acting like what women should"

Quoted in Social Psychology

I do agree with this man..No matter what happens also, women are always the minority group..What we do is always perceived wrong and negatively by people..But what to do..this is life..No one can questioned it as human beings are like this..So, whether you are happy or not, you have to go through all this hassles...Pity the women la..haha.^-^

Whatever it is, Im gonna be strong and overcome all this..We cant change on how people think at us but we can change the world if we believe in ourselves..haha.^^....To all women, trust on your capability as one day, people would definitely value us..Show to the men that nothing is impossible in a GAL's DIARY!!!..hehe..

Best regards

SHirley teo

Standpoint feminist point of view

Some thoughts to throw

2010-04-04T14:10:00.003+08:00

Something comes across my mind and I feel that its important for me to share this out..Recently, I felt this kind of "weird" thought..Indeed, I realize that I couldn't mix with those people anymore..Im serious..Although it is a pretty much enjoyable scenario, I do not really enjoyed myself..Physically, Im still able to smile and etc..yet, deep in heart, I do not really enjoy...I prefer to sit and watch television or have a chat with a few friends of mine to talk about politics stuff, sharing opinions in life and others..

One more thing that I found out, people are really complicated..Im serious...and honestly speaking, I do not like the scenario whereby people tend to engage in their deep chatting session..if wanna have a deep chatting, why dun they move to a private place or etc??..im not sure..just some thoughts to throw..Indeed, the matter is kind of private and confidential-so why must bring it up in the public area le?? when people approached to them, they were like "SSHh!!"..I saw this scenario lots of times and im just wondering though..if Im da person rite, definitely Ill be annoyed...

However, this few days have really wake me up..Gossips are just temporary..Stating that "im the best friend of yours" is just a total lie too..sometimes, its better not to expect so much of things in your life..Always believe in yourself man..Tats the top value that I have learnt..When you are needed, automatically, those who needs you would attach to you..When their matters have been settled, they tend to walk of from your life..So, is this called as friends??

Honestly speaking, previously, I enjoyed listen to the gossip and deep chatting ..however, things have changed after I experienced a lot of things in my life..too much of hurtful feelings and betrayal..and we are growing everyday...How much can we gossip?? DO we want our life to always filled with gossips and living in fantasy world???Yet, I do not blame others as this is the one who is building who I am today..I can't be bother much as I have to move forward in life and experience much wonderful things in life..In fact, it has changed me on who I am..my thoughts, my perceptions and my mind..Thanks for letting me to experience now rather than later..Thanks for allowing me to see the true colors of yours..What I know is I enjoy my life now, better than the rest of my day...

Friends??!!! hehe..well, if people still behave in this way, What I can say is I wish you guys all the best...If you still do not want to change yourself, then you will face the consequences in the future..Perhaps, during your working life..Somehow, you might think that you are young and etc...But this is not the reason..For GOd's sake, Im just 19 years old and I have experienced numerous things in my life..I missed my teen's life..Total miss...I didnt have the chance to enjoy like what you guys have enjoyed as my life is bind with responsibility ever since Im in high school..I have took up many roles and responsibility..Still, I never blame to have this kind of life..As i believe everything happens for a reason..wad else you guys who are elder than me??? Wish you guys all the best if you all wanna to be a successful person in future..Open up your mind to see the world as the world is always evolving and people are always compete to get the best one in life...

All the best..

p/s: I saw some improvement in a few of yours..good one..^^...

best regards

SHirley teo

FOR UR !@#$%^&

2010-03-29T12:54:00.003+08:00

SCREW UP!!!!!

I might be harsh and rude in this post but I just dun give a damn in it..

When you dunno much, dun assume that you know about it..

when u cant contribute it, just shut your mouth and stop complaining..

if u r tat good, den do la..and not pushing the work like playing taichi...

shit man..it will be MY Last time to do this man..

now, i totally agree with Sandheep...Individual assignment or random group assignment is much better compared to the rest..Just cant take it but to throw this out..

Group assignment suppose to do together and etc..yet,the one who is doing all the jobs are sandheep and I..but of course, sandheep did the most de lo...Stating that u guys wanna dis and wanna tat..but do u all really contribute?? everything is just copy and paste..and dis got to trouble us to read,edit and rephrase again..when things are so last minute and we just asked u guys to do some minor part, you guys could even scold F**k words to us..what is dis man!!!...screw it la..and i have to face this..if we are able to do, definitely we will do it without asking you guys..but, must u scold dis to us? was damn pissed off-tats why i chose not to reply da msg...what the heck man!!!!....

three days, starting from friday to sunday- sandheep and I were busy with this PROJECT only..and we gotto sacrifice our sleeping time la although its a weekend..Other assignments were left undone..and today, Sandheep and I had presentation..yet, we didnt even complain..Its true tat u guys have assignments to do..but wad about us?? We have it too..but because of the selfishness that u guys impart, we have to bear the consequences...

sigh..even printing the Project out was a total disaster for them..all tend to use the word "Dunno la" " dun have dis and tat"...and at the end, sandheep is da one who do the printing..

i just couldnt stand it as i feel tat its unfair for sandheep especially...doing the jobs from top to tail, yet we are the one who were being scolded..wad da hell man..!!..

gonna say this again..MY LAST TIME man...dun ever try to mess up with me...my patience has limitation too...and if u guys happen to read it, pls do evaluate urself..im not trying to pinpoint but how can u guys being so ignorant?? this, i could not understand at all...

signing off,

shirley

L.O.V.E

2010-03-28T11:51:00.003+08:00

Love is too vague to understand,

Love is too ambiguous,

Love is too abstract

and no one but you, understand the word "Love" better than anyone else..

nowadays, many of my friends are pretty stuck up in the world of "love"..Some have suffered as they tend to avoid one another, some tend to act as if nothing happens, some know that its impossible for them together yet at the same time be with their loved ones and the list continues...Indeed, if that lucky person is belongs to you, no matter what happen, he/she will still come back to you..He/She might date with other people now and rejecting you..but future is unpredictable..Who knows what will happen in three to five years later??

All of us here are bind together with the strong word of "FAITH"..we are faithed to know each others, we are faith to be roommate, we are faith to be in the same club, we are faith to share our ups and downs together, we are faith to organize an event, we are faith to meet one another eventhough its just at the street, we are faith to miss one another, and the list never ends...So, I believe too that if the person is belongs to you, he/she will definitely comes back to you,..Its just a matter of time..

God might give us lots of challenges in life by letting us to meet a lot of people before meeting the right person..God might put some spices and salt to make us stress and dilemma...But, this is who we are and this develops us better..We tend to understand ourselves better after all the ups and downs we face..

Some people have a strong belief that long distance relationship could not work out and it's very suffering..Imagine that you could not meet him/her? Imagine he/she is not there for you when you need them the most? Imagine that you have to be jealous, seeing at other couples walking hand in hand? No doubt to say, its true suffering...But if you guys are faithed together, definitely you guys will be together at the end of the day..The separation period is just a test for one another..

Different people have different interpretation of the word "LOVE"..its just depends on how you look at it..Love is always suffering yet it can be sweet at times..it depends on how you value the word "love"...Its not wrong to love someone and you have no right too for stopping a person to love you..so, just be happie go lucky and enjoy your life..after all, love is where the heart is and is always flying in the air...

I love my family a lot although at times, there is some conflicts and unhappiness, I love my boyfriend whom is always being so understanding, I love Zhu kor for being such a nice brother to me and always support me, I love LEo Club for our strong bonding and relationship where we back one another up, I love my classmates whom we share loads of happiness and conflicts, I love my friends around me and I love EVERYONE...

Love simply have no records on wrongdoing..Everything is not perfect and goes smoothly like what we have planned..as this are the small small elements that build us up who we are today..Our personality, characters and attitudes are formed due to the word "Love"...Even the most cruel person like a robber, rapist, or even terrorist would also fall in the world of Love...

So, now ..do you agree with me that the love is too vague to understand??

Be happy always and never stress up in life because life is too short for us to think and crack our brains. Lets enjoy our life and follow the flow on how it should be...Nothing is valued more than the word "lOVE" as through love, happiness is formed..

signing off,

shirley teo...